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Thread: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

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    Default How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Hi guys,

    I approached this HB10 yesterday and I found her a bit suspicious as to if I was really interested or I was trying to add her to my shag list! This is exactly what she said: "Well I am single, but tell me is this a part of your easy and systematic approach to attracting women effortlessly? "

    I think majority of women think the same way when they are hit on by a random guy. What is the best thing to say to make them sure that I am genuinely interested, without making me look defensive or without putting her on the pedestal?

    Cheers

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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Yiu could reply, "Effortlessly? That would be awesome! If you know how to do that, I'm all ears!"
    Then wink & smile at her.

    It's nothing more than a shit test. That's all.

    It really doesn't matter WHAT you say though... Its all about how you say it / handle it.



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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    I used to try and fight the player vibe. You're so much better off embracing it. I would have come at this from a few different possible angles.

    I'll take that as a compliment. Are you going to punish me for being confident?

    Yes, it is. I admit I love to meet unsuspecting naive ( her description) busty blonde girls that never see it coming.

    thank you, that just made my day. when I was growing up I was painfully shy, it has taken a lot of work to get to this point.

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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    I used to try and fight the player vibe. You're so much better off embracing it. I would have come at this from a few different possible angles.

    I'll take that as a compliment. Are you going to punish me for being confident?

    Yes, it is. I admit I love to meet unsuspecting naive ( her description) busty blonde girls that never see it coming.

    thank you, that just made my day. when I was growing up I was painfully shy, it has taken a lot of work to get to this point.

    Like a boss!


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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Kino, nice call buddy............... .................... .

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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Kino nailed it. That is what is called being genuine/authentic = the cornerstone of true confidence.

    By dropping your guards and showing vulnerability, the girl can't Sh1t test you. You just immune.

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    Default Re: How to diffuse women's suspicion?

    Yep, Kino hit it.

    Shit tests like this are the perfect opportunity to agree and amplify.

    "Yep, and I can't wait to add you to my list as number 1,200,217."
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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