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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Art, while that may be true, in the art of seduction, you need to have a purpose, a goal and an end mark. Or else it is just a good conversation among the myriad of conversations she will have in her lifetime that she may or may not remember.

    Just like in sales, you can talk up a storm and get the prospect engaged, but if you don't close, it's all for naught, you make no money. In the art of seduction, you get no girl. And he who hesitates, masturbates. No one is going to remember you for your good conversation if you don't close or at least progress closer towards your goal.

    Like every wave a surfer rides, the wave won't last forever and at some point it is going to break. A good conversation can only last so long before it comes to an end, during which it has to serve a purpose.

    One of the universal methods taught in the art of seduction is to cut out early at the height of the conversation. As an artist, you heard the saying "The height of excitement is at the peak of anticipation"? When you cut out, it leaves the girl wanting more and thinking about you. Moreover, you save your vocal cords and your social energy for another girl.

    As demonstrated in the game show Keys to the VIP, the classical approach most guys do is a guy approaches with a high velocity attraction and cuts out and n-closes. You don't want to overstay your welcome and talk and talk and talk. The girl is there to socialize with other people as well. And if by chance, you talk to a girl for 2 hours straight, that's the girl you probably end up marrying :P That's pretty much how normal non-PUA guys end up with their gfs.

    In texting, that purpose is to move the interaction to 1st tier communication. D1. So in hubert's case, if the girl's response time is slowing down, that means the wave is breaking. Unless, he is a master texter who can charm women through a wall of text, he can't overstay his welcome. He needs to escalate.


    @Hubert - For text game, I recommend you get Bobby Rio's "Magnetic Messaging" and Christian Hudson's "How2TxtHer"

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    @immortal, oh i know that. I just wanted to highlight a point. Other points on the threads are pretty valid too. Logistics are important but sometimes life gives you lemons amd you gotta make lemondae
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Yeah that makes sense. Run into a problem though. Doesn't look like she's gonna respond to what I send in our convo (see above). Have I killed it? I guess now I can't ask her out this weekend. I think it would look horribly weak if I came over the top with me wanting to see her for I feel if she had any feelings of attraction she would be the one texting me .

    For instance I have another girl that worked at my old work too same exact place as this girl so they work together who added me up and asked me out this weekend.. Given she's maybe a 5 so I don't even really wanna go out with her she was acting kind of desperate too. That will kill everything for someone.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    It's way too early to adopt a defeated mindset. Just because a girl doesn't respond or is the first to end a conversation thread doesn't mean she likes you any less. Just know some girls are texting fiends and some aren't.

    At the same time, you need to work on your text game.

    What you need to do is a key lock sequence that is taught in Bobby Rio's book.

    1 - Re initiate with her via text with an opening powerful enough to spark her emotions to pull her out of her daily boredom trance. And I don't mean "Hey, what's up?" Those are chump/creeper texts. T-Mal on this forum got some good stuff.

    2 - Then you build a connection with her based on a shared experience. Something you can only say to that girl, for example, an inside joke.

    3 - Lastly, close. Set the date and deal with logistics.

    If you can't see her, then you can also text her to "stay on her radar." This is called a "Holding Pattern" text.

    I will lead by example with something I did recently. This is a two parter. Part 1 is a holding pattern text that led into Part 2) key-lock-sequence to close. I am setting D3 with a girl. The girl is sick for 2 weeks and I couldn't take her out. So I sent her something to stay on her radar. You will see how I sparked her emotions, made a connection referring to a past experience, and got her invested and generated good/positive emotions. Keep in mind, I am dealing with a high status HB unrated that every guy is after.

    Wed June 11
    [Initiating text with an opener]
    3:21p – ME: I got it! You r gunna thank me for this but based on my professional scientific assessment, I’ve concocted an effective way to alleviate your cold virus by raising your body temperature consistently without putting strain on your body.
    3:24p – HER: Walking? A dry heat sauna?
    3:25p – HER: I feel a joke coming on, but im listening
    3:25p – ME: No. Cuddling by the fireplace with hot screenwriters named [I.M.Mortal]
    3:27p – HER: I already got u sick once, you’ll never learn, will u?
    3:31p – ME: Lol! Anyways, I hope u r feeling better. My work has been postponed so I think I’m gunna come on down tonight to see if u can get me sick
    3:35p – HER: Oh really? Look at that! I guess we r going to c one another this (work) week!
    3:43p – ME: Mmmhmm. The sucky thing is every week is a ‘work’ week for u. We gunna have to do something about that. Like umm smuggling u to Hawaii. And then So America. Wait. Smuggling a Colombian to So America? That makes no sense
    3:45p – HER: And if this is completed I will never have to earn money again? How does this come to pass?
    3:51p – ME: Well...I’m thinking once we can get passed the DEA agents and customs, you can get a third job because I’m gonna need someone to support me while I play video games all day and dance salsa all night
    3:53p – HER: Oh that sounds like a really good deal...
    3:59p – ME: Lol. Ok, ok...let’s be a little more realistic. We will stick to the idea of robbing a casino, staging our own deaths by driving the getaway car off [x] pier and sail away on a yacht sipping Pina Coladas (non-alcoholic of course).
    5:11p – HER: U have an interesting understanding of the word realistic

    This is a good place to cut out. To maintain my value, I will be the first to end the thread and let her get in the last word. Onward to part 2. I am going to ask her out via text this time.

    Wed June 18
    [Initiating a new thread with an opener]
    3:02p – ME: Howdy neighbor! So, I got some cool news and some not so cool news...
    3:05p – HER: Howdy! Lemme have it!
    3:10p – ME: The not so cool news is I gotta work tonite so we not gonna see each other. No salsa for me. And no me to keep u warm fuzzy and safe on the way out...
    3:13p – HER: The cool news is u have to work?
    3:13p – HER: Ull be missed buddy! Make that money!
    3:17p – ME: Actually, the cool news is [XXX] the musical will be coming to town at the [X] starting June 23. Don’t know if u ever saw or heard of the movie. I was stoked. And I want a cute nerdy Colombian musical enthusiast to see it with
    3:26p – ME: I can get orch area seating (half-way up) at a special rate. Just trying to avoid the nites u have privates. I want to go ideally July 3rd becuz better seats are still available.
    10:18p – HER: I heard of [XX]
    10:18p – HER: I usually have a private Thursday nights
    10:20p – HER: I can’t really spend the $ right now, and I wouldn’t want you to spend tht kind of dough for my company

    Thu June 19
    1:05a ME – Oh dang, u had gotten quiet all of sudden. I thought I scared u off. [XX] isn’t suppose to be a horror show! Lol. Don’t worry about the $ hun

    She didn’t respond. So, at this point, it is not smooth sailing, but I was confident I can get her out. I saw her 2 days later in person and she said she wants to go but she may be a guest instructor that night and is awaiting confirmation. This is one reason why I enforce the idea to either call the person so you can speak person to person.

    She goes to the EDC for the weekend and returns. 2 days later, I hit her up to see if she can go because good seats were running out.

    Wed June 25
    2:12p – ME: Hey wb rave girl Did u get a chance to talk to [XX] about Tues?

    No response. But don’t matter, I am going to see her that night anyways. That night, she told me go ahead and buy the tix. It’s on! But my work wasn’t done. I wanted to see if I can get her out for dinner prior (which I forgot to set in person).

    Monday June 30

    2:56p – ME: Hey valleygirl! So tmrw I can come pick u up. When I got our tix I bought pre-paid parking at the lot. Parking there can be a pain or else.
    3:14p – ME: What’s your schedule looking like before/after the show?

    No response for a very looooong time. Did I adopt a defeated mindset? Hell no. But, I will be honest, I was a bit worried, hoping she wouldn’t flake out and I will be stuck with the tickets. HOWEVER, 9 hours later, she replied at midnite.

    Tuesday July 1
    12:28a – HER: Sorry [I.M.Mortal]! I was teaching late tonight
    12:28a – HER: I will meet you there cuz I have a lesson that ends at 7, but will hustle over afterward!
    12:34a – ME: Okies. Hopefully it’s not in the valley
    12:35a – HER:

    More inside jokes teasing her playfully. She gives me a bit of value appreciating my tease. Looks like dinner isn’t going to happen, but got her busy ass out.

    After our date, I sent a follow up text to her.

    Wednesday July 2
    1:15p – ME: Forgot to tell u something the other nite in the midst of all the hustle and bustle...
    1:26p – ME: That you look so goddamn cute and adorable with those glasses! Yea, I know...I’ve said it before, but u keep wearing em to tug at my heartstrings
    1:41p – HER: Aw haha! Thank u [I.M.Mortal]! U might b the only one who thinks so
    1:49p – ME: You know why right? Cuz only us cool and awesome people think alike
    1:50p – HER: Mystery solved!

    That's how the pros do it.

    You are dealing with a HB10 and you are new at this text game. You need to know the waves before you can surf them. You are going after a big wave. But if you wipe, then at least you went after the best. Live and learn. Read the book, invest in yourself. It's the only way you can raise your value because girls will only go out with guys they perceive to be equal or higher value than them.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    I agree with immortal on this again. Most guys get too worked up over a girl not responding. I believe its best to hold out and continue to until she gives you something that says otherwise. People these days have busy lives and texting is the long form of conversation that most people aren't aware of and get caught up in their heads with negative thoughts before anything sticks. When you put something out there hold it and maintain that frame. The only time you'd want ro break it should be to change your frame. I've done this and continue to so i can be a bit unpredictable. Its not the best way to go and definetly not smooth but i don't want things handed to me. I like to see if i can get a wide range of responses to expand my learning curve. Since you're still learning and not so experimenting i'd reaffirm that you take immortal's advice. As much as i should take it too... I just like making things difficult.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    ahh i see immortal...everythin g you said hits the nail on the head..i see how sometimes you gotta plow through with the columbian girl..not use to it ..use to dealing with 6s 7s where i find its easier no games are played with them i find.... but 10s and 9s its like fuck they wanna ignore and fuck around , flake on dates...where 6s or 7s are asking me out ..thanks for your help and input also to artandale

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    You are welcome.

    As a man, you owe it to yourself to find the best woman for you. To do that you need to be the "best of yourself" because a HB highly sought after has her filters on.

    Sadly, in today culture, people have been conditioned as guys chasing women (thx to silly fairy tales), but really, guys choose. It's our birthright. That's the way it's been in the primitive days.

    Get use to never stop being attractive to claim your birthright or else suffer in mediocrity.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Those are some words of wisdom ... Okay now I'm totally confused like out in space ... So now she waited 3 days and sent back

    Ya ur ugly
    Jk

    So now I've ignored her don't know what to do I'm lost and I feel like I wanna put my energy toward something else. What would you do?

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    She said "you're ugly jk"? Right? She's negging / sh!ttesting you if so. I'd play along and call her a name and tease her too. Then transition to an emotional connection and finally put your cards on the table and see if shes down to meet up.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    That is actually a good sign. Whether she was busy or not, 3 days late is almost as if she was initiating text. Usually nice IOI.

    This means she is responsive, playing along with your teases. Play ball!

    Oh my goodness, the things I could do with that...

    HER: Ya ur ugly
    Jk
    YOU: Woot! Best complement I heard all week. You can be beauty, I can be the beast. [This is known as roleplay]

    OR

    HER: Ya ur ugly
    YOU: I know, that is why you are attracted to me.

    Then transition to what Art said.

    YOU: Hey, hitting the [x] pub on [x nite]. This beast is looking for a belle. Come join me. I need a belle to profess her love to me and break the fugly curse before the last rose petal fall. [This is known as future fantasy projection]

    And if she can't make it, then just tell her.

    YOU: Aww. Too bad. You won't be able to see me in my human form. :P

    In seduction, when you master the "language of emotion" you can talk like this even in person. You can mindfvck women. Any guy can learn it. It's like learning a foreign language.


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