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    Default Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Hello all fellow puas, this is my first post and there is a lot of back story I'll try to make it as brief as possible though.

    I've recently started talking to this girl who is a rocket which whom I use to work with and I have never succeeded with a really hot girl before it is hard mode, I'm talking all my friends and people I used to work with all thought she was mint I even had one friend I was with when I bumped into her bug me about hooking him up so I feel this might not work but if solid game works on her we will find out.

    I used to talk to her at work a bit but just kinda chit chat , also I use to game one of her good friends who now hates me I think don't know if that's a terrible thing. However I bumped into her at a dance festival 2 weeks ago and after I seen her I added her 2 days later on social media asking her how the rest of the time at the festival was etc etc and she was showing a bit of interest back ,we were pinging back and forth pretty well.

    Then the weirdest thing happened the next weekend I go to a local place and I see her again! Was a last minute thing so I guess was a weird con incidence. When I seen her I gave her a hug to establish some kino we chatted for a bit. Then my ex gf came over who was also there made a big scene and kind of cock blocked me so I stood up from the table and just left.

    I messaged her two days after and we talked a bit . Then the next day mid convo she froze me out for a whole day then replied. So I froze her ass back for a day too then sent my reply now we started to get into this whole only sending a few texts a day but still kind of talking everyday . I keep negging and she keeps sending Back things like hahaha shut up ..

    My question is this weekend I was going to ask her to go out with me to a club - one that we've run into each other at before Tbh I wouldn't wanna take her out on some other kind of date I have no car or anything like that so club works best cause we can just cab and I love going.she lives super close too. Also should I just keep going the route I'm going

    I've never quite bagged a hb 10 before. She probably has so many options and I can tell she's harder to game then some of the girls who I know are interested in me.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Looks like you got the right idea so far every step of the way and handling it pretty well. Club can work... But it depends on how solid you are in crowds. Personally i handle it pretty well with friends but one thing i've noticed is that if it is a club setting you need to isolate to get intimate. And towards the end of the time at the club you have to worry abou your logistics in further closing. The club can be good but you really need to have a little more planning ahead than a club i you want certain things to happen. If your goal is just to dance with her then cool--you can easily reach that. But figure out what you want to happen when you go out. Hold your ground on what you want.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Hey artandale thanks for the reply! Yes I feel very very comfortable at the club. I'm pretty much a regular. Also I mentioned something to her previously in a message like hey have you ever been "here" you should take me some time ? To her and she totally skipped over the part where I was hinting for me and her to go there she just focused on what else I said.

    I was thinking about asking her on the same day that me and my friends are going out too cause her just coming would be a bonus as to if she doesn't I'll just game all night long....so I was just gonna ask her the day were going in a cocky way ?

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Doesnt matter too muh about hiw you ask her. Be geniunely interested in having her company. People respond more to something you aren't faking to get their attention. If you want her there show it more than how your say it. Know what i mean? Use body language and actions to prove more if it while you're talking about it.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    I'm starting to get a thought of disinterest from her. She starting to freeze me out for more then 10 hours and reply back playfully but with nothing to add to the conversation just a reply. Can't tell if she's just being nice or she's just starting to play games How do I act here

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Hard to judge without seeing the text exchange. A lot of guys blow it because their text game is weak or they do too many 'don'ts"

    Then again, do know that a girl's investment will fluctuate with time. It depends on what is going on in her life. More often than not, it has nothing to do with you, so don't let it mess with your head.

    What you need to do before you shoot yourself in the foot via text game is close and set logistics for a date (preferably without friends) fast!

    You shouldn't be having conversations via text or playing text grab-ass. Your game in texting is to bring it to an in person game. Spark her emotions, build a connection and close under 10 lines. What I am sharing with you is universal PUA textbook rules of texting.

    And do not over-text. If you are engaged and expecting her to text you under 10 hours, you are probably texting too much and falling into a texting buddy trap.

    The least you want is to show her too much attention. When a guy gives a girl like her too much attention, it sub-communicates to a hot chick like her that you are not use to being with a girl of her level, or else why would you be giving up your attention/your value so easily?

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    You are a god I.M mortal . I've been trying to keep a conversation going with her daily I thought it was good to ping back and forth playfully cause then she gets use to us texting but I guess she needs time to wanna talk to me after she knows I don't wanna text?

    The last message I sent had a question in it and she hasn't responded in over 24 hours. So when she responds I was gonna wait maybe 6 hours then hit her with Saturday I'm going to blah blah blah but I'm not gonna ask politely more so I'm going to tell her to come?

    And our last couple texts
    (We were talking about a pub)
    Me: have u ever been to "pubs name"
    Her: yaaa the people there are nasty though etc etc
    Me: oh so you think your pretty then 'her name'
    Her:hahaha shut up
    Me: so your saying I belong at 'pub name' and no I'll fight u you shut up
    Then she didn't answer

    Don't know if the last line was just weak or...and if she doesn't answer I wasn't gonna ask her to come out on the weekend ?

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Hmmm. Looks like this was part of a long text conversation...that led to nowhere because you took too long to close. Although, you did get some teasing in and was a challenge to her, so that is good. You did a nice job of disqualifying her. Hopefully, your in person game is congruent.

    Last line wasn’t weak. I had girls not respond to some really great lines. I think nothing of it. Sometimes, if it is too clever, they can’t. And it is easier for them not to answer.

    Not sure if you said you speak to her on the phone. But if you can ask a girl out on the phone rather than texting, then do it. Asking a girl out effectively via text is a whole new method to the madness in itself.

    So in your situation, the only true way to tell how much a girl is attracted to you is to ask her out to meet with you 1 on 1.

    The reason why I say this is because you want to let your romantic intentions be known to her. You don’t want to be just friends. It’s not a matter of ‘you bring your friends’ and ‘I bring my friends’ and we hang out as friends together. That’s weak. Get it out fast and if the girl is not interested, then you can move on sooner and not waste time.

    I strongly advise you to take her out to a place that is not so distracting at first. The less distracting the environment, the more you can focus on each other. Don’t use the environment as a crutch to your game.

    I usually get a girl to meet me for coffee (not dinner) so I can work my charms. Why not dinner? Too distracting with waiters and chomping on food and a big table separating you both. Then, move to the second venue to do an activity together. If you have status at a certain club, then bring her there.

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    Awesome man! Again thank you for all your help .. People like you are keeping these forums alive

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    Default Re: Help gaming a hb 9.5-10 !

    One thing i noticed is that women tend to love conversation. If you can handle a conversation and stretch it out it doesnt matter too much where you go as much as how you handle it. Pick a spot but try not to make it all about that spot, be flexible and lead if needed to one spot or another. If problems arise handle it with a light joke or ignore it and move on never address the small flaws directly. Once its out there and highlighted defensively you're likely to lose traction with them. Your location you pick should make you feel comfortable and dynamic enough to adapt to let her see the interesting side of you.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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