Make the impossible possible!
Oh thanks, I thought it'd be, because 22 isn't old, or is it
(She's two years older than me though, hence the teasing about her age)
A friend of the HB9 asked another mutual friend whether I am happy in my current relationship. Wonder if the question was asked for the HB9, as I do not see any other reason for asking, and also since when do they know whether I am in a relationship or not. Could be a trick question. The mutual friend replied to the friend of the HB9 that she would have to ask me personally as she does not know.
Another IOI is that the HB9 added me on FB.
I used your text about her being an alien, from hell or heaven .
HB9: Mondays to Wednesdays I live in hell. Friday till Sunday I live in heaven.
HB9: I would be boring otherwise <-qualifies herself
Me: That still leaves Thursdays open . Nice that you are being an interesting person
HB9: Thursdays I live in between
Me: Thursdays you are at conference meetings :P
Looking at the past experience with her and what went on recently with her not answering the phone what would your advise be to set up another meeting?
I do want to sound it like that I am going to place X and she should join, because this gives her the opportunity to easily cancel out on me just before the meeting and I would have to drive a 3hr drive back to my place.
Being persistent I also do not want to come out as being needy.
So this is why I had the idea to set up another meeting and cancel on her again if there is the least bit of flakiness.
Make the impossible possible!
Stop worrying about her flaking. If she flakes she flakes.
If you've gained enough attraction from her she would lock you down as a priority. If you can't run into her to boost your attractiveness in presence the you should consider giving her the option of leading. There is nothing wrong with a woman to lead with a time and place that fits her schedule. Its about how you handle it.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.
Well, hopefully you changed up the heaven or hell text a bit to fit your girl because much of it consist of insides jokes between me and my girl.
Her response was damn positive. Look how invested it got her into playing along. Solid IOIs there.
As for your question on how to set up a date without looking needy, here’s how to frame it.
- Probe her schedule.
- Block out a day or two. A day you know you will be busy and a day you anticipate she will be busy.
YOU: "Hey Purgatory, I know this cool place that I’ve been wanting to check out. It’s [xxx] over at [xxx]. I heard the [x] there is simply divine. How’s your schedule looking this week? Thursdays is no good for me. Fridays I got a party to be at."
What this does is it frames it as you trying to fit her into your busy schedule. The idea is to get her to suggest a day.
[Once she suggests a date or gives you an idea]
YOU: Yea Saturday would work, but I can only make it after 7 pm.”
To confirm the date the day before...
YOU: “Hey my lost soul, we still rocking it over at [x] at [x time?]
Stop looking for IOIs and just escalate to learn more. Don't call her out. That's a very reactive action to take. Girls with boyfriends and husbands will always show more interest, which is another reason I think IOIs are overrated.
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