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    Default how to invite yourself over?

    So, I'm planning to go out on a data (with a girl I haven't met yet-met her from online dating). We're setting up the date and I know two things she lives by herself while I don't, and we live 40min aparts.

    1) in this case, do you guys suggest me to meet somewhere in the middle? or just drive there and meet somewhere close to her house, so we can spend the rest of day at her place?

    2) how do you guys invite yourself over to her place in cool non-needy way?

    (I don't live my myself, so please no one suggest we meet close to my place)

    Thank you in advance

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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    1) in this case, do you guys suggest me to meet somewhere in the middle? or just drive there and meet somewhere close to her house, so we can spend the rest of day at her place?
    since you met her online, I recommend meeting her at a public place preferably closer to her place.

    2) how do you guys invite yourself over to her place in cool non-needy way?
    don't invite yourself over.

    there is only one non-needy way to invite yourself over, that is: if she invites herself over to your place first, then you can tell her that her place would be better.

    instead of inviting yourself over, why don't you casually invite her out to your car?

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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    I mean, if it's a date, I highly suggest picking her up. My girlfriend & I live 30 minutes apart, & while it would be nice if she lived closer, it's not a big deal. Use the time to pump yourself up! Meeting a girl somewhere doesn't directly establish your motive, so that's fine if you yourself don't know what that is.

    As for the "invite me in" part, this depends on how much time you want to devote to this girl . If you're looking to smash then pass, kino & escalate from now until you go back to her house.. then say something like "I take sugar in my tea, aren't you going to invite me in?" It worked for me all the time. If you're going to date her though, I suggest just dropping her off & calling it a night. It's always best to leave them wanting more
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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    Meet by her place. I just stay in set and come up with a reason to go inside if she doesn't explicitly invite me in. Seed reasons why you'll need to go into her place earlier on the date.
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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    makes a lot of sense thank you ALL!!

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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    Did you meet her online?

    If so, then there are two possibilities based on my experience:

    1) She's looking for a lay and if you get her hot enough she'll invite you over; or
    2) She's not just looking for a lay and you're better off playing a longer game and aiming for D2 or D3 lay.

    Figure out which one she is then move forward with that strategy.
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    Default Re: how to invite yourself over?

    You have to sell your game to make her want more of you. Theres no one trick to getting invited. Dont force the idea on her. If anything act like s hot chick who wont escalate too far unless isolated.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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