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Thread: How to get the Alpha Female?

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    Default How to get the Alpha Female?

    I have a problem I really haven't run in to before and I've exhausted my entire aresnal. I know if I make a move she'll fall out of interest but if I don't than she'll lose interest as well. I've been friends with this girl for almost a year and we're pretty close but all I can think about is sleeping with her.

    She has guys all over her and it's pretty steep competition. I know she's into me and I never thought I would ever be into her but she messed up my mind. This problem is particularly difficult because I groomed her to be my wingman and even though I've used my pick-up methods on her they don't work. Now that I've shown interest I don't think she's a viable wingman and every guy initiates closes with her so thats not something I can do. Any advice?
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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    Gonna have to write a book to solve this one. But every aspect of your game will have to be on point. We are talking about your inner game. Your confidence has to be rock solid. You pretty much have to transform. You don't see other men as competition. Why? Because you don't compete because you are the prize.

    Also, remember, women will only date a man of equal value or higher value. Your only other bet is increase your passive value because your active value (PUA external game) is not working. For example, let her see you with other women -- hotter women. That usually triggers a woman's pre-selection.

    - Host parties. As the host of parties, you automatically created high status for yourself (aka passive value).

    - Find a demographics and excel at it. For example, if you are a church goer, be active and be a fellowship leader. It automatically puts you in high status in that demographics. Hopefully, whatever demographics you are passionate about, she shares the same passion or at least some interest so you can bring her into that world. If not, you two are incompatible. Assortment theory takes it course and it's not meant to be.

    - There is something I refer to as middle game. It's adopting traits or become that story-obsessed man. 1) Be dominant 2) Be a challenge 3) Be Competent 4) Be genuine 5) Be sexual

    Lastly, I know what it is like to be seduced by a seductress. Yes, they do mess up your mind. But remember, it is YOUR mind. No one controls it but yourself. Only you can rein control of your life.

    Best thing to do is you are going to have to take a break from seeing this person. Disappear and work on your self development. Then come back as a changed and transformed man. Will take a lot of work. However, don't do it because of a woman, do it for yourself.

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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    This is great advice and makes complete sense I knew I had to take a step back the whole time I just didn't want to. I think being told thats what I need to do will rely help.

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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    I agree with immortal. I do think you can game her without having to leave her side but you need to emit an entirely different aura about yourself.

    To me it sounds like you've automatically placed your value on yourself slighly under hers in everyway. You're afraid she holds all the cards because she's been your wing. To me that makes her think she's safe and you allow that zone to exist without any control. It doesnt sound like the friend zone has ever come into play between the two of you.

    If anything your best chances are like immortal said. Seperate. In my personal opinion if she insists on getting an answer from you tell her you're friend zoning her, and be a little honest in saying you were starting to have feelings for her. This is an advanced and tricky move that may backfire but i personally like to gamble.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    You can also just kiss her one night. 100% confidence, look in her eyes and take her. Action speaks louder than words and you both already know each other.

    Don't think, do. If she rejects you she would anyway not matter what else you tried or changed. If you wanna sleep with her, stop over thinking it and just do it.

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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    You can also just kiss her one night. 100% confidence, look in her eyes and take her. Action speaks louder than words and you both already know each other.

    Don't think, do. If she rejects you she would anyway not matter what else you tried or changed. If you wanna sleep with her, stop over thinking it and just do it.
    I agree with this too because you're not holding back by doing so on top of showing her what you want. With more actions and less talking it thrns the situation into a 'it just happened' kind of situation. When you proceed i would suggest putting it all out there physically with intent. Don't force it but present yourself to her with your interest. She'll let you know if its a green light or red.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: How to get the Alpha Female?

    You can also just kiss her one night. 100% confidence, look in her eyes and take her
    At this point, I would say go ahead and do that. That's being honest with your intentions. Hell, you ain't got anything to lose.

    IF she rejects you, then, I would do David Tian's ultimatum. Just throw your cards on the table. This is where you be genuine/authentic and tell her how you feel and honest with your intentions. If she gives you some excuse why she doesn't feel the same, then you tell her "Well, if you don't feel the same, then I rather not see you because every time I'm with you, I want to take you and give you a wet screaming orgasm."

    Then you go no contact.

    Don't break. If she tries to contact you, tell her the same thing. You will only accept one outcome. It's either a "fvck yes or no"

    While you go no contact, work on your self-development. Try again after a year or so as a new person. But by then, you probably kicked the one-itis.


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