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    Default A different kind of Push/Pull

    I hope you guys can help me with this problem.

    I've dated beautiful and popular girls. When we see each other I use push/pull, which works and I have had sex with the girls. The girls text me several times a week, and responds when I text them. But the problem is that it is ALWAYS me asking them if they want to meet up. The girls almost always say yes, but I still feel that I lower my value, since it is always me who takes the initiative to meet. I've tried to wait a few weeks where I do not ask them, but they still do not ask me if I want to do something together with them. The girls are quite popular and after a few weeks I ask them if they want to get together because I am afraid they might lose interest and just find another guy.

    I have experienced a girl that lost interest after a few months. I used a lot of push/pull when we saw each other but I was always the one taking the initiative to meet up. Thus, I chased her and I think it was the reason she lost interest and left.

    It's hard for me to use push/pull in this context because I do not get the opportunity to use push, for example by saying that I can not see her on a particular day she wants to meet. So should I wait even longer to see if they will ask me and thereby risking that they never ask and instead lose interest? Or should I ask them if they want to meet and accept that I then lower my value and may then lose the girl? What are your experiences and thoughts about this kind of push/pull?

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    Default Re: A different kind of Push/Pull

    Girls are attracted to guys who take the initiative & aren't afraid to make plans / ask them out... so there's nothing wrong with what's happening there.


    Telling a girl you can't meet on a particular day isn't push/pull...
    "Push/Pull" is a playful interaction where you tease & banter with her.

    You're really just over-thinking things.
    It doesn't lower your value to be the one who takes the lead & takes charge of the interaction.


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    Default Re: A different kind of Push/Pull

    Ok, thanks :-) Well maybe you are right. I just feel that if I have played the game how it should be done, then the girl should begin to chase me and asking me to meet up.
    Maybe I should mention that I am from scandinavia where it is common that girls are also the ones taking initiative when dating.


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