I hope you guys can help me with this problem.
I've dated beautiful and popular girls. When we see each other I use push/pull, which works and I have had sex with the girls. The girls text me several times a week, and responds when I text them. But the problem is that it is ALWAYS me asking them if they want to meet up. The girls almost always say yes, but I still feel that I lower my value, since it is always me who takes the initiative to meet. I've tried to wait a few weeks where I do not ask them, but they still do not ask me if I want to do something together with them. The girls are quite popular and after a few weeks I ask them if they want to get together because I am afraid they might lose interest and just find another guy.
I have experienced a girl that lost interest after a few months. I used a lot of push/pull when we saw each other but I was always the one taking the initiative to meet up. Thus, I chased her and I think it was the reason she lost interest and left.
It's hard for me to use push/pull in this context because I do not get the opportunity to use push, for example by saying that I can not see her on a particular day she wants to meet. So should I wait even longer to see if they will ask me and thereby risking that they never ask and instead lose interest? Or should I ask them if they want to meet and accept that I then lower my value and may then lose the girl? What are your experiences and thoughts about this kind of push/pull?