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    Default Virgin girlfriend is ready to F close!

    I'm looking for real expert advice here... I'm talking T-Mal, Bandit, Swinger, Suave Kino, Meteora, ect. This is not a delicate subject in my case & I need the best.

    My girlfriend & I have been together for 8 months, & while that may seem like a short time to some or a long time for others, my girlfriend & I feel as if we have met "the one". I'm not going into too much history or background about her, but she is vary inexperienced...
    For example, I'm the first man to touch her bare breasts & to touch her southern regions. As you can imagine or have experienced, this is a gift & a curse.

    Jumping a head! We have talked about sex throughout our relationship but she was never ready... until Monday. I can't remember how it came up, but she came out & told me "I want to bang you" (quick back story, we say "bang" instead of sex all the time, so this rather blunt to me). I gave her a surprised look & she smiled. We talked about it for a few minutes then talked about a few other sex related topics. This is fantastic because the more we talked about it the more I realized how she really wants me to be her first.... & hopefully last.

    This is where you fellas come in. How do I go about approaching this?I have zero experience with virgins... keep in mind though, this is just not some girl to me. We're not talking an F close then dump. How do I progress the situation further & within good time?
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    Default Re: Virgin girlfriend is ready to F close!

    Anyone's advice would be appreciated...
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    Default Re: Virgin girlfriend is ready to F close!

    Honestly, just talk about it. You don't need to approach this with a bunch of game. Recognize that she's in a very vulnerable state and so you can be vulnerable as well.

    So talk about it, see what her feelings are, and then lead with her. When the moment is right, just get her very worked up.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: Virgin girlfriend is ready to F close!

    just now found this post... (sorry it took so long...)

    I'm looking for real expert advice here... I'm talking T-Mal, Bandit, Swinger, Suave Kino, Meteora, ect. This is not a delicate subject in my case & I need the best.
    i'll be honest here, virgins is new territory for me (I've never had one, but I'm currently working on breaking one who wants to save herself for marriage), so I'm not really in a position to give much "expert advice".

    juggler (one of my favorite pua's) briefly mentions virgins in his book, he would tell you to be delicate, build a strong emotional connection, and stretch out foreplay the first time you bang her.

    tucker max (one of my favorite authors) would say that virgins are no different from any other girl, they're just going to be more concerned with things like safety, security, and having a positive first experience (even if its a one night stand)

    david x (another favorite pua) would say that you should know what you want and go after it. be honest about what you want, but respect when she says no.

    I'm going to assume you've probably banged her by now. but in the even that you haven't, I would suggest you make it a memorable experience for her. perhaps watch her favorite romance movie and have some wine while slowly escalating. give her some unforgettable foreplay, and let her forever cherish the moment when you first slip yourself inside of her. (be sure to start out slow and slowly pick up the pace, this will help reduce the amount of pain she feels)


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