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    Default Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    I'm going to a notoriously nerdy and "unsexy" engineering college filled with nerdy virgin East Asian girls (I'm Chinese). Think of MIT, but probably worse.

    I'm a beginner to pickup, but I've been doing magic tricks for years, so I can approach confidently and demonstrate value. However, after reading The Game, Rules of the Game, and Mystery Method, it doesn't seem like many of these techniques will work on these Asian girls.

    For example, the Mystery Method assumes that a woman would readily have sex if there is sufficient attraction and comfort. However, in East Asian culture, relationships are supposed to last a long time. In East Asian dramas, it takes 20 episodes for the 2 main characters to express feelings for each other, 10 more to get together, and another 20 to get through some romantic life-changing obstacle before finally getting married. One-night-stands are very rare and PUAs are virtually non-existent. I don't think many of the girls at my college will succumb to emotions. Keep in mind that many of these girls are extremely intelligent, unlike the typical Californian white girls.

    Before I discovered the community, I asked some of them what they wanted in a relationship. They all said they wanted long-lasting relationships.

    My question is, are there books/websites specifically for picking up Asian girls that don't conform to American culture? I found Asian Playboy's blog, but his posts seem to be targeted towards the macho American-born-Chinese (the type that gets white girls or slutty Asians). The ones at my college are the type that watches anime, has cute Hello Kitty shirts, and obsess over Korean singers. Help?

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    Default Re: Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    My question to you is - Is that what you want and is attracted to? Cute nerdy Asian girls who are into Hello Kitty, anime and K-pop culture? Are you into K-pop and anime? There is a reason why I ask you this.

    Although Mystery and Neil Strauss was the guys who exposed the venusian arts to the public, the art of seduction has evolved much since. It's like martial arts, as Gracie did for the MMA world.

    There are methods that are more simplified and emphasis has shifted away from the heavy reliance on external game techniques, canned routines and lines. Many well-known PUA authorities these days promote natural game and a balance of external game and inner game.

    If you are not into K-pop culture and anime, then you are incompatible with these women. No external game routines will work. The wit and humor is an obstacle. And if they do work, it won't stick. Attraction will be fleeting. Assortment theory will prevail. It's like a yuppie trying to seduce a goth chick. Wrong demographics. He is fishing in the wrong pond.

    Perhaps Mystery method will help someone get a SNL, but for reasons you listed, no amount of technique will change a FOB asian girl who is conditioned by culture. Again, fishing in the wrong pond. (Unless she works in an Asian massage parlor).

    I know this one guy Sebastian R who wrote an article on seducing FOB Asian women.
    How to Seduce Asian Women

    Never read it because as an Asian myself, my type have been white or latina.

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    Default Re: Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    Yes, I also like K-pop and anime, though less obsessively than my Asian female friends. I'm able to maintain a conversation with them about many of their favorite singers/animes.

    However, the problem is closing. A few times, I'm pretty sure I gained the attraction of an Asian girl (this was before I knew about PUAs and IOIs). But when I suggested anything remotely sexual, even a simple date, they'd say something like "I have to study" or "I don't date, I need to get good grades".

    I know these girls are thinking about relationships and sex; some of the animes they watch are extremely sexual. There has to be a way to make them act on those feelings.

    Btw, I forgot to mention that probably 50% of the girls in my college are East Asian.

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    Default Re: Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    Honestly man, the books are there to guide you in finding your style of PU not copying everything they say or do. And don't always think about it too much, just have fun sometimes.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    I know these girls are thinking about relationships and sex; some of the animes they watch are extremely sexual. There has to be a way to make them act on those feelings.
    That is why I don't care too much for Asian girls, even as an Asian guy (especially the FOBs)

    - Too much cultural hangups regarding sex due to strict conservative/strict upbringing due to emphasis of education over a social life. For example, Korean girls won't even kiss you unless in a relationship. The kiss signifies that.

    - Many Asian girls up to 2nd gen lack social skills. Go to an Asian club like in K-town and you will get responses to your approach like "Do I know you?," friends cockblocking friends pulling them away from the set just because, or lack of any form of conversation tact. It's like holy crap, how old were you when your parents let you loose into society?

    Having said that, there is no external game technique that will work if you want to bag these girls for a lay. Conversely, there are American girls that will not sleep with a guy on the first date PERIOD and you will hit LMR. It depends on the girl. No PUA technique will change that. Any PUA system that claims that they have a special technique can make a woman abandon her boundaries is B.S.

    The only surefire way you can get these girls to get out is if you have passive value. The guys in BigBang won't have an issue. That is because women are attracted to the perception of status. Jason Capital has a book out called "Status" which is a good read on how to create passive value.

    Also, Christian Hudson came out with a system call "The Ten Code." Based on his research of how women are fascinated by literotica, he extracted traits that the story obsessed man has. There are 10 traits and if you adopt them and make them part of your transformation, theoretically you don't have to rely on an external game.

    I also recommend Mark Manson who teaches "inner game" true confidence and being authentic/genuine.

    Also, these girls who are telling you that they "don't date" or "have to study" are full of crap. If a member of BigBang ask them out, they will probably miss their final exam and regret it after. They might claim that these guys are cute and they are attracted to their looks, but that is not the case. The truth - they are attracted to their status.

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    Default Re: Gaming nerdy Asians at engineering school?

    Great advice! I was browsing around the forums and people were saying the same thing about colleges in general: go for high status, build your social circle, and girls will naturally come to you.

    I'll read more about social status and see where that gets me.


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