Me and my bud went to the kilt. He eventually got wasted and was acting really dumb but the waitress I was with was a pretty fun girl herself so she didn't mind too much. She had a drink or 2 with us. Me and her went to her car afterwards. Starting making out heavily. Then I suggested we hang at her place and she said no and that she just wanted to go home and shower and watch a movie. We started kissing again and exchanged numbers and I told her I would drop my bud off and call her to hang. She said maybe. Then I left. Dropped my bud off and then called her twice and texted her once. No answer. I was going back to the kilt tonight to eat, then go to a party after. Should I text her now and see if we're still cool to hang or did I ruin it?