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    Default Re: 'I'm not interested' text after day 2 makeout

    i dunno i don't really think about it like that, what are the steps? basically i just be myself and then take the conversation in a more physical direction and be more touchy etc and then when i wanna makeout with the girl i just go for it, only difference is i didn't take it further because i couldn't have a late night
    Ah PD, that is where you erred. You just "Be yourself" and not the "best of yourself." The details of the steps can't be covered in post because there is a lot (Attraction - High Value Talk - Escalation). If you are here on a PUA forum (and not on some ordinary dating forum), then hopefully you are serious about getting good at the art of seduction, you need to start researching a bit and invest in your self development.

    When I was AFC, I pretty much went through what you did. Now it is light and day for me. You were fortunate that the girl actually told you straight up "She wasn't interested." It's better than a girl, who doesn't let you know, and you waste your time texting her only for her to not respond hoping you catch the hint.

    But basically seduction starts at "hello" and speaking to her in a way that will appeal to her emotions to generate attraction. And I don't mean small talk and going into interview asking her questions. That crap is boring. A lot of guys are too logical. The guys who get women know how to hit their emotional core and bring her back to the playground. Teasing/being playful/high value talk are the fundamentals.

    Yes, there are things like kino too. You want to get her use to touching you and it is also used as a compliance test on the escalation ladder.

    It's a craft that also involves self-development. Once you cover your bases, you will see a significant improvement on your success with women.

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    Default Re: 'I'm not interested' text after day 2 makeout

    I've made out with a few girls who ended up not being interested, so why did they make out with me? It's because I got them attracted to me (or should I say horny), but there wasn't really a connection. My guess would be that they go for the make out anyway to see if that could jump start a connection, almost like a last ditch effort. If they don't feel it after that then they leave. It's happened to me a few times, so don't sweat it to much bro.

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    Default Re: 'I'm not interested' text after day 2 makeout

    Thanks for all the input guys i'll use all of this advice for next time

    my only other question is what to do next with this girl, i pretty much never just drop it until a girl straight up tells me to fuck off and why not right i'm good with rejection but if it were you in my shoes what would you do

    to be honest i'd probably text her something off the top of my head like 'cool that you're apparently not interested and blah blah etc but we clearly had a good time so lets chill again' but i know thats obviously a really weak text

    basically what i'm asking is how to pursue a girl after rejection without being needy, is it even possible lol

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    Default Re: 'I'm not interested' text after day 2 makeout

    First of all, NEVER ever call it a rejection.

    I don't know who ever created this word, but it was created by men...insecure ones who likely got off on seeing another guy getting blown out. After all, the girl, in her mind, isn't thinking "BOOYAH! I rejected the guy!" (unless the guy provoked it). She just wasn't interested.

    Secondly, she is not Harvard university and shouldn't be even placed that close on the pedestal.

    ALWAYS frame it as an incompatibility. You guys most likely had different values/interests/outlook on life because if you truly were compatible, there would've been a natural attraction.

    As for this girl, LET IT GO. You are incompatible. Somewhere out there is a girl that is compatible for you and probably hotter too.

    If you can't let it go, you are giving her too much value and devaluing yourself. That is a recipe for a scarcity mindset and on the path of framing yourself as a beta male.

    IF you walk away from these posts, remember these words from me:

    It's not a matter of what is possible, it's a matter of principle.

    Any girl that shows you disinterest shouldn't be rewarded with attention.

    The opposite of love is not hate. It's indifference. By feeling the need to respond to her, you are still dignifying her with your attention, your most valued asset. Indifference is the absence of need. So you should stop caring.

    Don't spend time looking back on closed doors and miss the ones opening in front you!


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