So today I decided to try opening a random girl in front of a shopping center. I can't recall the last time I opened a completely random girl out on the street, so this was all new for me, but I tried nevertheless.
Alright, so I see this girl walking, probably a 6-7, I just wanted to practise, not really intended to pick up or anything. She was walking kind of slow, so I could kind of tell she could be sad or some shit, but I am generally pretty good at comforting people, so I just went for it. I walk after her & when I'm about 10 feet away, I see her bending down to pick something up.
"Hey, what did you find?" I say lightly, cracking a smile
No answer. Completely ignored me, didn't even look at me.
A second later I tell her "I'm talking to you", in a pretty light way aswell. Still no answer. Still doesn't even look at me.
"Speak the language?" I ask
She replies, so quietly I can barely hear it, "No". It didn't sound like she had any accent though, but hard to tell over just one word.
"Okay", I said, walking away. I almost burst out laughing. Who the hell was she? Some incredibly insecure chick? Or having a really, really bad day?
What would an expert PUA do at this point? Try to open her up, maybe inquire about her presumably bad day? Try different languages? I could have tried for the laughs, but didn't.
Anyway, my very first approach was a pretty straight rejection, and damn, it didn't feel bad at all! In fact, I feel really good that I did try & I am relieved that a rejection does not hurt at all, and I do mean not at all. This is good encouragement for the next time.
Give me your thoughts, Artists.