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    Default girl at work..

    We're friends.. kind of. She must know I like her..

    She drove me for a drink not too long ago, we went for another after-work drink tonight with a few others to celebrate breaking up for a few weeks. i think she likes me, kino is ok and improving.. but she shyed away when i tried to bite her cheek on the way home. Went in 90 waited for her to give it me, she stayed a second, then pulled away. When she dropped me off i told her to let me bite it, she said she doesn't like being bitten (long story). I told her to let me kiss her cheek and she said no!aha bitch. Tried to fist bump me but i refused. It's usually laughs and jokes, she's cool but we hardly text. It's been a slow increase over a few months (she usually stands close for a cigarette on breaks whatever) but i wanna know what she's thinking.. do i keep trying, or forget about it? How do i ask her?

    "I want cheek kissing privileges. You're still one drink behind.. Which day is best to do something next week?"

    Do i send it? Can you suggest something better?

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    Default Re: girl at work..

    Couldn't wait.. it's gone! Lol

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    Default Re: girl at work..

    Did you get a reply back from the text?
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    Default Re: girl at work..

    Meh i would have waited and let tension build. Then crack jokes during smoke break like nothing happend and then invite to hang out. Proceed from there buttttttt you sent your text... The problem is, is that you might be breaking too much rapport. You should be building and breaking rapport to push and pull her...
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    Default Re: girl at work..

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Meh i would have waited and let tension build. Then crack jokes during smoke break like nothing happend and then invite to hang out. Proceed from there buttttttt you sent your text... The problem is, is that you might be breaking too much rapport. You should be building and breaking rapport to push and pull her...
    Appreciate your advice man.. i been trying to push and pull up til now.. she's moving to a different department so no more smoke breaks. I thought the timing was right. She asked "why would you have the privilege of kissing me?lol" told me she'd let me know when she was free aha maybe a blow off, but not a definite no. I hope. We'll see!

    Nice little quote in your signature though man. Time to get ready to hit the session! Me and her will speak again no doubt.. peace, love x

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    Default Re: girl at work..

    I probably wouldn't have sent that text. It came off kind of needy to me when you said "I want cheek kissing privileges". Direct, but needy! I recommend freezing her out for a day or two then meet her for a drink. Be fun and flirty but push pull.
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