Re: Kinda lost - Need some perspective
The best approach to a happy life style is a lifestyle you choose. And you can only really know that you have a choice when you have options. In regards to having options in life you have to understand and be able to percieve them. You are now understanding these options more and more clearly. I think where you stand in your perspective in regards to being tired is the calm before the storm of your growth as a person who knows what he wants and how to achieve it. By understanding all the rules of engagement and seeking inner growth you will naturally attract women and have options. Expand into new experiences by doing what you normally do just with more energy. I've been keeping a simple routine for the last 4 months and i've had options to close and have closed. I'm not the greatest looking guy (chubby mid 20's asian with glasses). I don't have expectations for change because i do what i want, when i want it and i give people around me options. I believe i fit the 2 personality types... One being a leader and the other being a badazz. I'm emotionally spontaneous for the sake of my own pleasure and leading to ensure my time is not spoiled by the group dragging their feet. The issue i think i see most in this community is that most people tend to look for oppurtunities rather than create them from nothing. I am constantly intiating conversation, group events and starting a party with the idea of forgetting troubles and moving forward to a good time. Not only do people respond well to this but you will feel the growth too if leading. I'm not sure how you decide ro do things in your life but i take pride in changing the small things. Example, if the only free time i have is when i eat... I go to a place that is differen and doesnt remind me of home or work. If people from work go with me to lunch i make it appoint to not talk about work. I try not to order the same thing everyday. Why is any of this important to gaming or inner game? Because people are always going to be around you--by making interesting choices that lead to an outward look on your life you have less to complain about because you are actively seeking options and adventures. What most people forget is that with this type of personality that you can fine tune is that it helps you bump into more people. Being friendly to people you just bump into can lead to more people or attractive people you want in your life. When you keep sulking over the same meal everyday you only have yourself to blame. Why not continue to make your change and turn it up to 11 when everyone thinks you can only goto 10. Make more of these changes for yourself with the idea of challenging yourself to have fun. When people really see you're fun the more they'll want to hang out with you. Don't get discouraged that the hot girls aren't at your house party because they're next door. Grab some beers and knock on their doors and invite them over. Create the situation. Lead the group to have a good time so you can do whatever you want.
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.