Growing up, being shy was always my setback. I've been doing a lot better socializing with people the past couple years. I recently met a girl at a bar and we exchanged numbers and hung out once with kissing involved. I asked her what attracted her to me. She says that I have a silent confidence. It made me think about my past shyness. But as far as I remember, I don't think I was too silent. I tried googling what it meant and didn't get a clear answer. Also, if it works on women, how can I utilize it more?