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Thread: I'm starting to get pissed.

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    Default I'm starting to get pissed.

    This girl I've been gaming for a while is making me feel something I've never felt for a girl before ever ; she's starting to piss me off. haha

    So basically we have one friend in common and we're giving him advice about this girl. So me knowing what I know, I started giving PUA advice to our friend but she keeps telling our friend not to listen to what I say because I don't get girls and will never get girls because I'm an asshole. She kept saying that a lot. And she being bi claims that she "gets girls" and I don't.

    I don't know if this is a test or something. But I swear she's starting to piss me off because I can't think of a good comeback hahha, I was one step away from opening a random girl in the street and showing off, good thing I didn't.

    We don't agree on anything, we fight almost all the time, I swear there were just a couple of things that we agree on. But for some weird perverted reason, I'm attracted to her and I know she is to me.


    Any ideas what I should do? Or just responses, just give a really good comeback for this. Or should I just continue ignoring it?

    "Don't listen to him, he doesn't get girls"

    I was thinking that If I succumb to my will and start picking up girls in front of her, she will get what she want/prove something, I'm not sure but I just don't want to follow her lead.

    Thanks a lot
    -HAWK

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    Default Re: I'm starting to get pissed.

    From my assessment, if you two argue all the time and hardly agree on anything, it's a clear sign you are not compatible. Based on assortment theory, people who have things in common (same values/interests/outlook/etc) are naturally attracted to each other even if they don't verbally express it. We tend to attract what we reflect.

    The attraction you are feeling is fleeting and is most likely based off on the principle that "people desire the most what they can't have." There may be other deep-seated factors at work here as well - like you say "perverse" fantasy.

    How do you know she is attracted to you and this is not wishful thinking?

    So you need to be really really honest with yourself. If this is what you want, what you two have in common and you better have at least 20 things. So what happens if you do get her and this attraction fizzles? It's like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. What are you left with? Think about it. A girl that could emasculate you by ditching you for a woman...That will be the least of your worries if you are not compatible.

    If not, somewhere out there, there is a girl compatible for you and will be a "Man's woman" and none of this switch hitter types...unless you have some deep dark perverse attraction for bi girls in general, then w/e floats your boat.

    If you want a comeback to this Sh1t test, it's easy.

    Her: "Don't listen to him. He doesn't get girls"
    YOU: "You are absolutely right! I don't get girls...I get women!

    The best way to get her "Chasing" you is you need to put her in the frame of the chaser. I would playfully disqualify her from time to time in terms of an active game.

    For a passive game, let her see you with other hot women. That will make you a Pre-selected man. Pre-selection is a very powerful tool. When a woman sees a guy with an abundance of women, subconsciously she will wonder what he is about. Coping mechanisms may come in terms of jealousy or trying to Sh1ttest you as a player, but subconsciously she will be attracted to you. Bear in mind, you don't have to pick-up girls in front of her. That is not the way to roll. Just introduce her to your friends who are female is sufficient and give her the gift of wondering. If you don't have any, start making.

    By being a pre-selected man, it enforces what I will leave you with:

    Don't get pissed, get even

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    Default Re: I'm starting to get pissed.

    I want to point out why picking up in front of her is a bad idea: it makes the pickup outcome dependent. We all know what the result of that is. Game over, you lose.

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    Default Re: I'm starting to get pissed.

    You don't want to "perform" in front of her. Just break rapport with her and be nonreactive.

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    Default Re: I'm starting to get pissed.

    Thanks guys. I shouldn't let things like this get into me, I was just being childish I can't let this shit ruin my frame.

    Thanks for all your help. This is why I still post in the forums. I can't get any decent advice from my non-pua friends. haha


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