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    CapPickup is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default How to avoid being one dimensional but keep the mystery?

    So I've set this playful casual teasing kinda childish tone with this girl but I don't know how to ask her out without asking her out... I mean there was this one time I just held her hand then yanked her to a bar and we played pool.

    I want to hang out with her this coming weekend. I don't know why but I'm so sucked in the indirect-ness of my approach that I need a reason to hang out with her. I mean I haven't even gotten her number hahah (Don't judge me!!! haha).

    I wouldn't be coming to work that day because I have to go somewhere but needed to stop by regardless to get my paycheck. My question is how do I get an insta-date without coming off as a creepy fark.

    One more thing I have no more ideas where to take her. I mean playing pool was my shit but I want something different.

    Examples:
    1.)Everytime she asks me to do something I always ask her "What's my name?" then when she complies I say "Good girl!" then pat her in the head. hahaha This is so farking funny.

    2.)I always pep talk my friends everytime they tell me stories of their failed endeavors of wooing the woman of their dreams. I always tell them out loud "ASK THIS YOURSELF. WHO WOULD HAVE THE BALLS TO DO THAT?"

    She overheard one time and she responded with:
    HB - You don't have the balls to do anything (smile)
    I walked over to her and did the triangle gaze.
    She stared for a good 4 sec. then broke off eye contact. Pushed me a bit, smiled then left.

    That burned me up for weeks. hahah

    To understand the complication of my situation go check out my previous FRs
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    http://www.puaforums.com/pick-up-fie...ing-point.html

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    Default Re: How to avoid being one dimensional but keep the mystery?

    What do you mean by being one dimensional ? I'm trying to understand your question. FYI, you should have kissed her when she told you don't have balls. She was being playful and you had the perfect opportunity to kiss her. The fact that you didn't, turned her tease into a fact in that situation.
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    Default Re: How to avoid being one dimensional but keep the mystery?

    I mean I have this "FUN!" vibe but I swear at times it gets so stale because I'm being one dimensional, there are times that we will have a walk and I'm not gonna say a word because I can't think of fun shit to say. I think it's unnatural to always be the fun guy.

    Oh btw I N-closed her and realized it was fucking useless because we work together and we see each other almost everyday. But it's good to have it "Just in Case"


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