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    Default Quick HELP PLZ !

    hey all i just have a quick question..

    so been gaming this girl who i used to work with...the weekend came and on the same date i asked her to go out but she was busy etc from work and excuse excuse ...\

    THE next week....i see her at a club ..I walk past her and i hear her friend say "he walked right past you" ( we were in a crowd) ...

    i pull a girl who i can tell really likes me and then i head over to open there set and see her and try to DHV myself with the girl i picked up, i end up just greeting her then dipping with the new girl i found ..

    i see her then again at the end of the night and then she says she has to go but to message her then she grabs my arm . since its saturday i was thinking of sending her "hey loser am i gonna see you tonight?" me and my friends are already going out so i was hoping to get her to come out with us

    is this an alright message to send her? how would you approach sending this message

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Terrible message in my book to send. Don't lower her value. Its misguided if you say that. Not so cute either. Keep it playful with a tone that fits how you would normally tease someone in person. Me personally i'd send a text like...

    "So here I am texting you since you wanted me to text you but i can't remember what I'm supposed to text you... Text back 'Meow' for lunch at xxxxx or text back 'Rawr' for more options"

    Why text this? Because you didnt tell me why you're supposed to text her or how that went down. So i generalized. I'd also keep things light and fun while challenging her. This would make it clear that you're not looking to have a simple talk about the weather and it keeps things interesting. Its long but the reward is that you know she's got an emotional reaction for something totally left field that is more than likely a joke to you. Use it or don't--but you should challenge her to peek and keep her interest.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    NO! DO NOT SEND THAT MESSAGE! lol. And if you are going to message her, then don't ask her anything. you tell her everything! Girls want a man ... not a boy ... a man is in control and he already knows what's going on. She already "ditched" you (in a manner of speaking) - if she wants you - make her work for you. But you have to display some IOI so she knows you are still into her. It's a game, of course. Maybe text her back with something like:

    "You asked me to text you. Did you need something?"

    I think that you texting her something like that is enough of an IOI ... if you weren't interested you wouldn't have texted her back. Plus, then the ball is in her court.

    You could also do something like:

    "Hey, I'm going to xxx tomorrow night. You should come with me."

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Okay so here is where we're at. After I took artandales advice she messaged back and said

    Her: Where ya going?

    I made up a complete lie saying something just playful and that she wouldn't believe ( kinda like I don't wanna hangout with you tonight)

    Her: LOL ur so weird ...

    Then now I told her the real plan all joking aside and at the end of the message I said come with.

    She has not yet responded .. Good? Bad? She's been taking a bit to respond anyway I figure she is trying to either get one of her friends to go out or something

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Just post the text exchange its too vauge to be able to give you feed back
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Her: where ya going
    Me: start off drinking your house, then main party downstairs then after party ; where we used to work;
    Her: lol ur weird
    Me: with that attitude ur not coming to after party
    But for real going to xxx my buddy is hosting a pre party and there's another rager I wanna stop by. Come with ..

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Just wai for her to respond. Its ok to wait. If the party is to ight then just text an hour before the party. But if its not for a few days or weeks just make sure to get an answer. Keep assuming shes coming until she says no.

    Shes interested just be perssistent. Don't over read things. Just keep your interests about her at surface level.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    ^^^^
    exactly. be patient. and if she doesn't come, who cares? Meet another girl(s) at the party. Remember, you don't want her to think you're TOO interested in her. Just enough that she keeps chasing.

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    okay well the party was tonight , she didnt end up replying to my message so now what is the point of action..are things over i thought there was some interest, also this is a more shy girl... from here on out though i guess just wait until she eventually hits me up ?!

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    Default Re: Quick HELP PLZ !

    Wait a couple of days. Say you wanna meet up later in the week to hang out while you do xxxxx so you dont feel lonely or some kind of excuse that seems reasonable. Maybe theres a place you wanted to try out but its not your thing to go alone to such places. Figure out your plan. Keep your peristence in meeting her--don't be pushy. Mention it in passing. The subtle the better--because then you're making it a point that you're bein playful and fun. The most important thing is to give her reasons when you lead. It doesnt matter what they are--it matters how you handle it. Good luck
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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