Re: How do i turn this around? (Girl says shes not into me.. But she is?)
Firstly: Lets Clear this up.
She was into you..... was (past tense) when she was initiating meeting, Lunch and beach. (But you didnt escalate... did you?) - Shes also asked me to go to the beach with her and go out to eat, which we did like 2-3 times. Between these "dates" we've been texting alot and i can definitely sense theres some attraction from her side.
Now she is getting ready to pull out which is understandable because she feels rejected, Technically if you isolate them 3 times or meet with them 3 times or 3 dates. You should be having sex on the third & they are in most case very happy to do that. Not figuring out there is some attraction. She gave you 2 -3 chances. I would get the message that you dont like me if i gave you 3 chances. Hence why she is saying " Naah, then you might think that im into you" which doesn't state she isnt attracted to you, its just stating that you might think she is.
Then this is what killed it.... Straight murder (but you used a neg, just at the wrong time so it was counterproductive):
Ouch.. Nah, i dont think we would be such a great couple. I kinda see you more like a sister than a girlfriend actually.
That was last chance and you said, 1. I dont think we will make a great couple 2. Your more like a sister then a girlfriend. (she probably at that point would of rather been shot)
But there is more: (This is how resilient women are..... its amazing):
Oh thats good! (NO ITS NOT GOOD)The thought just hit me(BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU JUST SAID) that i might have been sending the wrong singals (BASED ON WHAT YOU JUST SAID,THERE WRONG) with the butt-pics (seriously, it doesnt get any more obvious then that), cinnabons and all..
Men, we need to value our time more then we value women. This isn't to say women are not valuable. But who are we to believe in something so illogical, as men we should realize that without our time(life), we would not even be able to pursue women, but only our mother who gave us life. Why do we think we should prioritize them over our time(life) unless she is the one who gives me/my children life. Man is Sovereignty.