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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian as a PUA

    Well this is the first girl i've met whose actively suggested the idea of meeting up. And here we are and i'm running with it initiating after she's suggested. The signs are out there and i'm jumping at them. I wonder if i'm chasing now that i think about it. Would you guys consider this chasing?
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    So turns out im considered an art date not so much a friend or a lover. Which is interesting. She does art much like myself and it turns out she's just looking for art connections that ride along the same path. So far the emotional connection is there but definitely no physical connection.

    Its fine / whatever. Nothing to cry about or lost. Turns out people often date other people to emotionally date. In my head all that means is that we're friends which im fine with.

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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Wait... Did u ask her her how she feels about you or what you guys "are?" If so big mistake.

    And I wouldn't just give up here. She gave you a frame and you're living it. Big Pua no no.No one tells you who you are. While you won't die I'd she ends up as a friend, it's your choice if you pursue or not. She does not dictate the relationship (unless of course she clearly says no, I don't want to hang out anymore, go away don't come back etc).

    See red baron thread about frame control also.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Well as much as you are right that it should be my choice i didnt really feel super attracted to her. As much as we men usualy focus on looks--she was more of a 7 and a personality of an 8 but the direction of a 5. When i say direction i mean goals. I can't be with a girl who has goals that are less ambitious than mine. To me ambition in a girl is what makes up most of the attractive frame for a girl i'm looking for in such an end goal. Sure things might have been fun but i hesitated too long--and knowing how i work when i hesitate theres a dying spark of interest. I could push for it but there are plenty more options out there.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    When you start worrying about a girl's goals, you are way too invested. To say you wouldn't waste your time on a nice girl who in all likelyhood is an 8 is ridiculous. You don't have to marry the girl. Any and all HB help towards mastery. You can not dismiss any girl who you are doing well with. That's like saying I'll stop eating Apple's becausse I prefer oranges more. A little bit of everything contributes to overall health and success. As long as you don't hate Apples, why just jump ship? U don't hate this girl right? So why stop gaming?

    Sorry for being harsh but alot of guys have this sort of defeatist attitude they fall back on. Oh so you hesitated? Big deal. There are ways to recover.

    Go no contact, keep her as a friend or pivot but never stop gaming her. Never.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian as a pua

    Lol i wasnt invested in her. I was investing in myself. I gave my value more weight by insisting that im looking for someone in particular. Yes i could continue to game her but when im not feeling it why continue gaming? Theres no point to game when you know its not going to work out.

    Gaming her friends is something else entirely because thats not gaming her... I already know the boundaries she has and yes i can melt through her walls if i wanted to but im not going to want anything to do with her other than friendship. Lol. Failure is a matter of perspective.
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    Also... Who renamed my thread? Lolololol this thread sounds lame now and less direct about the intentions i had in the original post...
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