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    Question Gaming a lesbian as a pua

    Thoughts? Experiences? Recently encountered a girl who made it obvious that she was gay... Nothing about being Bi-sexual. The way our conversational patterns have been going it doesnt seem like just a friend thing. But before i attempt i thought i'd check in with some PUAs
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Game her as you normally would and escalate. Some girls used to straight then became gay or they may be bisexual now. You never know unless you go for it. I gamed a "lesbian" and was able to escalate with her, with her girlfriend standing right next to us lol. She told me she used to straight. Words girls say don't hold weight compared to their actions.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Through talking to my bisexual friends they say there is no such thing as only being attracted to one gender when you've opened those doors. They said they often attracted to both but at times find more attractive qualities in their own gender more often that the other sex. I even remrmber the girl i lost my virginity to--she boned a gay guy and he was for sure more attracted to men after that.

    Through the conversations i'm finding more of my bisexual friends telling me to keep paying attention for more subtle signs. Its safe to say this girl is already attracted to me but what fascinates me is the cross gender identifacation i believe she's going through.

    I guess nows the perfect time for a filler in the story. Met her at a book club in which i never read the book. I kept quite until the end and blurted something different than most of the people in the room. Walked out when it ended but hung around in the hallway and she approached. Strong IOI's--screaming at me from her. Whats funny is that other people kept flocking to me and interrupting--she eventually started to leave. I grabbed her number and texted her the next few days to meet up. Met up--lots of IOI's and small kino at me. I held back at the time because she said she was gay. She couldnt help staring at other women--i cracked a joke about it. Anyways this was 3 weeks ago. Since then we're supposed to get together for a creative art party--sounds like just the 2 of us. But a few days ago she invited me to her birthday. Wasnt able to make it on time because of friends from out of town. As i left my friends i texted and got the invite to her house for the rest of the party. Showed up after midnight was introduced to the peeps and kind of just sat and watched people interact. Too much energy was spent walking she made it appoint to bring up how we met to everyone there and drove the conversation towards me with everyone. Its kind of unexpected but i didnt flinch. I was still confused about really showing my cards about maybe being interested in her since she mentioned that she introduced one of the people at the party to her mom as a date. Funny enough they never kissed, hugged, held hands or sat next to each other showing any signs of effections. So i left things at that until i could get some input.

    At this point i am going to start display my interest. Gaming her via text is easy since she plays along rather easily and seems more flirty than any other girl i've texted this year. So yeah we'll see. Any input is appreciated too. All ears on such an interesting topic.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Kino man. I've been there. Just be cool and fascinating as you normally would and play that she is falling for you. Do not get too sexual too soon becauase some lesbians hate guys hitting on them. But Kino Kino Kino and act normal. When you see how she reacts then escalate to more sexual stuff (rubbing, hand holding, hugging and lastly kissing). If she reacts positively though.

    I sugeest you game as normal overall. I wasted alot of time once with a lesbian because I was confused by her advances. So don't worry about that. Just game.

    In my case, the girl initiated physical flirty stuff like pinching me or slapping my hand and stuff... And this was when I wasn't escalating at all with her. I would reciprocate the physical play until one day I was fed up with it and slapped her behind hard. Safe to say, she did not object to this, we started hanging out and long story short... SHE CALLS HERSELF BISEXUAL NOW

    And lesbians are awesome to talk about girls with. And threesomes lol
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Haha. I do think theres some pent up energy some lesibians tend to carry around guys at times. Its not all of them but some of them. Even after talking to some of my bisexual friends do they mention that most of the reasons why women go gay or open some new doors is because men are azzholes. Its not exactly the reason why they go for women but it makes more valid points to not date women.

    Also, LockDown, what was her emotional phases like as attraction was built towards you? Did she pull away more or just started to seem like most other girls you game? Obviously i have plenty more questions but i'll save it for later when i start to engage again.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Well it's hard to say. When it happened, I was real confused and didn't know what was happening. So my intuitions were thrown off. But in retrospect, she must have been giving me signs because thats what led to my confusion.

    If the girl is stable and comfortable with her sexual preference, she shouldn't be too withdrawn about being attracted to a guy. My girl didn't have a girlfriend at the time and was lesbian from about 17 y.o (was 27 when I met her). She also only slept with one guy up til I met her. So those may be factors.

    But again, don't worry too much about that. Game normal and treat her like the classic "dorky girl who wants you" and you will be fine man
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    have to agree with earlier advice about attraction going both ways. Attraction is NOT a choice. (to quote David X)

    Homosexuality is NOT "normal". It's a conditioned response. Society has a way of pushing people into "types".

    NATURE / CREATION dictates a hetero-sexual existence. (OBVIOUSLY)
    Otherwise "existence" would come to an end.

    "Lesbians" CAN be gamed..... (AND converted.)
    It all relies on "CURIOSITY"
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    I always had opinions simiar to what everyone was saying here. It makes it more obvious that more rules to the game applies here for me.

    Im hesitant only because i don't know what i want but i'm interested. I guess i'll have to play it by ear. We'll see come the weekend.
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    Learn from experience & keep notes.
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    Default Re: Gaming a lesbian?

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    I always had opinions simiar to what everyone was saying here. It makes it more obvious that more rules to the game applies here for me.

    Im hesitant only because i don't know what i want but i'm interested. I guess i'll have to play it by ear. We'll see come the weekend.
    Again, I've been there bro. Me and her didn't get along super well at first so I wasn't sure I even wanted her. But eventually, she started gaming me (lesbians are more aggressive than non lesbians. Not as much as men, but close). So at first it was plain old fun. But she turned out to*be pretty cool, great sense of humor to compliment my own so I ggaave her a shot eventually. And she totally fell for me. It was actually quite rewarding because of her gaming me (again, different from straight women). Felt like a good change of pace.

    And it's funny because she will comply with your requests just like any other girl would. My girl would always wear a ponytail and very little color. But after a while, she would always change it up with her hair, clothes etc because I suggested she do. So you can give her compliance tests to check her attraction.
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