I dont like to neg people- and i feel like when I do i can be hurtful or scare them away. Are there certain women who I shouldnt ever neg or disqualify? I mean what if they are not as attractive as me, or clearly appear shy when they see me. Should I treat them nicely?
I dont think I'll be talking to HB 9-10 anytime soon. Maybe 7-8s. And I'm afraid these girls are insecure enough that negging or disqualifying may hurt them especially if I consider myself high status in looks and career (though my past makes me a nervous chump that I have only recently worked on).
What do I tell girls when they ask what I do? I'm a 4th year med student and I feel like either 1- they'll like me because of that or 2. I'll come across like a doofus. If they ask I want to say- I'm in the healthcare industry. If they probe- I'm a healthcare delivery expert. If they ask what that is then tell them. Or should I redirect and not answer at that point (forcing them to find out later and not having to wonder if they like me only because im going to be a doctor).