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    Default Need answer ASAP please

    Alright, so earlier last week I told this girl I was going to take her out on a romantic date. We've been going out on dates since June. She, said "Saturday the 2nd, I am off for sure, let's go" Well, Thursday (28th) I made reservations for 8/2/14 at a nice restaurant and told her I made reservations and to be ready at 7:30. She says "I picked up a Saturday shift at 8pm and I close at 2am, so make it for 6pm" I told her I would just reschedule. I made it Sunday (today) at 5:30pm and I told her we could just catch up for a bit on Saturday at 6pm. Well, while out I hear her take a phone call with a girlfriend and it sounds like she says "Hit me up when you're ready to go out." I casually inquire after and say "Everything alright?" She tells me that her friend is clothes shopping and wants to talk about outfits and she just told her to call her back when she's done. So, I let it go. We leave the restaurant at 7:30 is because she says she has to go home to change before work which she says she has to be to at 8:30.

    (Quick back story) She never let me pick her up from her house before because she says she doesn't like for people to know where she lives. Well, I finally convinced her to agree to let me pick her up 8/3/14 for our date which is HUGE to me. Also, we hadn't had many sex conversations to create attraction before this date. So, after dinner, we are walking down street and I pick her up (creating attraction) She smiles and giggles, and makes a reference to her vagina "People are gonna see my camel toe" I rub her inner thigh and ask to see it. After a second she pushes my hand away and says "Ewww" playfully. We are daylight in public so obvious response. We talk about her body sexually, ass, vagina, and tits for while and I can tell picking her up turned her on a bit.

    Anyway, later that night around 9:30 or 10 I see her upload a pic on Instagram (we follow each other) and it was her dressed up. So, around midnight she uploads another 2 and it is her with a drink with two female friends at a local bar by my house. (She's not the brightest person) So, after a couple hours of the pics being up, she took down the one of her and two friends at the bar and just left one of her and her chick friend. So, she lied about working so she could go out with her girlfriends. I want to drop this girl after this but I feel like damn, I have made such improvements and seem to finally be getting somewhere with her. She agreed to go to Chicago with me in two weeks. It pisses me off that she lied to me and I almost want to call off the date tonight but I haven't even slept with her yet and I feel like the opportunity is coming up. Should I suck it up and go out with her today or let her know I know she lied to me???

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    I would freeze her out for a week and when she asks you what's up tell her you don't appreciate being lied to, that if she wanted to go out with her friends she should have told you. Tell her she broke the circle of trust and she is now on the outside .... and once you are in the outside it's very hard to get back into the circle of trust ..... just out of curiosity, how old is she ??

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    She's 24. She'll be 25 next month. I am stuck between a rock and a hard place right now. I was pissed last night when I found out she lied to me but now I'm just more disappointed. I am debating hard. Yesterday went so well. I got her to kino, be receptive to my requests, I got her to talk sexual, I got her to talk about her vagina, ass, and boobs. I got her to FINALLY give me approval to pick her up from her house and I got her to agree to go on a 4 hour overnight road trip with me to Chicago (in two weeks) which could possibly lead to sex. So, I KNOW she did't work last night and I know the EXACT place she went to. She is still hung up on her ex and went to a place where he hangs. (He's definitely moved on from her so I am not worried about him) I am thinking she went there with her girlfriends in hopes of seeing him and making him want to talk to her. I REALLY like this girl and want to date her. I have never slept with her yet. Do you think I should confront her about lying to me and tell her I'm canceling our plans for the evening or do you think since I have so much invested I should not say anything and just go out with her and continue to seduce her in hopes of getting her attached to me??? (I only have a couple hours to decide; please answer asap)

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    IMO you're too available when you get the need to text her go out if you're always connected to the internet and have fb on your phone it'll log on until you turn off your wifi and come of as you got to much time on your hands...

    For her lying to you should be nonreactive to it as its AFC to react to her lying but at the same time don't text her and let her text you first only then you make her work for your attention don't forget that you're the prize she isn't. It's her loss not yours
    "A man who stands for nothing, will fall for anything" - Malcom X

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    Girls are F'n crazy bro this doesn't surprise me in the least. I had a chick trying to hookup with me while her live-in BF of 1 year was not around. So them lying is expected. I don't know why chicks lie so much I just accept it. They either lie about having a BF or hide him from me till I find out the hard way. He may be on FB, he may be in the background somewhere but the thing you gots to understand about women is they love having like dudes in the background to come save the day.

    If they fall in love sure they'll be loyal to the grave unless they are an Adulteress or Temptress. Most chicks are a little bit of both. Rarely will you find a good loyal broad. I have yet to be crossed in some form in relationships. Some I can count on some I cannot. I don't let it phase me I just look past people's flaws sometimes and knowing I cannot trust them unless they earn is a true lifesaver! Now I know they are playing games from the start so I hit the ground running. Chances are she likes you so go for it and completely forget about her doings as women will always be like this. They are not like guys. Guys are players too so understand it's just The Game we play.
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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    Awesome awesome. So, be quiet about it and take her out as usual without bringing up the fact I know she lied. Dude, if I wouldn't have got to play with her body a bit and gotten all that receptive energy yesterday I would've said f this date. I need to see if I can get her to follow me. I like her. THANKS AGAIN, BRO. Any other comments or suggestions???

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    In other words look at it like this, she maybe getting bored, she may be exploring her wild side, she may be shooting for a reaction, she may be playing you for her sugar daddy but nobody knows but her and you will never get the truth from her or her GF's so just let it go and do what you do. Let the girls come to you and chase you. Usually girls will say when she wants am exclusive relationship. Has she made it exclusive? If not what are you worried about? Play her right from the start knowing she cannot be trusted unless it is earned. As a chick who played me on POF once said "Be careful how you play your cards when you hold a Queen." I will never hold a Queen again unless in love and from now on holding a Jack since this is my life and I will play them I will not be played unless they completely win then okay I lost that round.
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    Not saying I am gonna be a total d!ck just no longer a naive weak AFC. Now matter how much they like me something else is always going on. Unless there is love you cannot trust a woman. Love takes time.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    Nope, she has not made it exclusive. Honestly, I will probably just casually say "So, how was work last night?" Just to see how far she goes into it. Funny shit is, I was IN THE AREA LAST NIGHT where she was and actually debated going in that place for some hookah. (This is before she posted the pics) That would've been suuuuuper awkward for both of us, but mainly her.

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    Default Re: Need answer ASAP please

    Agreed bro, agreed. I have got to sleep with this girl. If I can sleep with her, I think it will make her feel invested and want to pursue me. Women are crazy.


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