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    Default Re: Case study trying to understand better the female mind

    Every woman is slightly different, but overall game is the same. If she's in a shitty relationship but been in it a long time, she's invested a lot of pain in the relationship. That's going to make her madly in love with the guy because the other decision is for her to admit she made a terrible decision. It's all about investment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Naughty Napoleon View Post
    Adventurous and Romance...

    That's what all women crave for.. and might be these guys had offer her these feeling. You don't know.

    Oh ya, taking slow don't feel adventurous nor romance to any woman.

    So move fast!
    Yup, I guess he brings enough excitement, adventure and romance in her life. He took her on several trips but he's a couch potato the rest of the time. They always end up in his apartment and watch tv together. Really boring stuff...

    I agree that I have to move fast but that's a HUGE issue for me! I cannot start making out with a girl if I am not sure whether I like her or not (and it may take me 3-4 dates until I make up my mind). I once decided to try a different strategy and tried to kiss a girl I was not totally into (she was ok but not my type) and it was a complete failure. I simply lacked the passion and she managed to evade it in the end.
    I also view kissing as a form of commitment. I don't feel like "kissing around" as it may give the wrong impression and I don't want to lead on anyone (I don't do ONS, only looking for a relationship). This is a big problem that prevents me from getting to the next step after the first dates.

    Moreover, I HATE french-kissing and it seems like most women expect it. It makes anxious even thinking about it... Let's be honest, I lack experience in kissing and I don't see how I can deliver

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    seems like you are making excuses. im no expert but i would say you need to figure out your anxiety and work on it first. i used to be anxious too and nothing makes me anxious now. So maybe you should focus on that. You are rationalizing away your decisions- dont like this dont like that but maybe its about your anxiety.

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    So i wanted to address the kissing.... You want to improve french kissing skills? No friend to practice some kissing? Buy some fruit. No dried and dried fruits would work fine. When you practice your french kissing place the fruit on or in your mouth. Use your tongue and mouth to take in the moment, the texture and the warmth of the chick. I believe that women love french kissing because its similar to a 69, in which both people are giving and taking at the same time feeling connected through hot, sticky and wet connections through a breath. Kissing can be fun if you take your time with it. Its also ok to let the girl lead. Biting should be soft and firm with teeth. I wouldn't teeth too much but to only remind her that you can escalate fast and dangerously.

    I believe all emotionally charged women love to French kiss.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jayk238 View Post
    seems like you are making excuses. im no expert but i would say you need to figure out your anxiety and work on it first. i used to be anxious too and nothing makes me anxious now. So maybe you should focus on that. You are rationalizing away your decisions- dont like this dont like that but maybe its about your anxiety.
    Well you see, I wonder what's the deal with me. On the one hand, society/trends/peer pressure tells you things must be done that way. On the other hand, I simply don't like what other people like to do. Is it really that bad? I don't really know.

    Me and my ex had tried French kissing on multiple occasions (she was French btw, lol) but we both didn't like it. Since both of us agreed, there was no issue. However, I know that many other chicks think differently.

    As to kiss-closing during a date, could it be that I haven't met the right girl yet? There's one or two girls I really wanted to kiss (you know, it's like an irresistible urge), but the problem is that I didn't want to ruin our friendship (there are other issues too). However, I have not felt this level of passion with most of the other girls I have been on dates with. It's hard to kiss them under these circumstances (I have stopped dating them anyway).

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    So i wanted to address the kissing.... You want to improve french kissing skills? No friend to practice some kissing? Buy some fruit. No dried and dried fruits would work fine. When you practice your french kissing place the fruit on or in your mouth. Use your tongue and mouth to take in the moment, the texture and the warmth of the chick. I believe that women love french kissing because its similar to a 69, in which both people are giving and taking at the same time feeling connected through hot, sticky and wet connections through a breath. Kissing can be fun if you take your time with it. Its also ok to let the girl lead. Biting should be soft and firm with teeth. I wouldn't teeth too much but to only remind her that you can escalate fast and dangerously.

    Hahaha, nice trick! Will definitely check it out!

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    Default Re: Case study trying to understand better the female mind

    To me french kissing is like driving a luxury car. They're meant for those to indulge. If you prefer the kiss on the surface thats fine. Its like saying you'll take unleaded fuel instead of the premium. You get what you want out of it. For those who like to indulge more in connecting tend to look for that extra dance thats done in an intimate space--mouth to mouth or mouth on mouth. This now off topic from your main discussion but i believe kissing can tell you a lot about what kind of girl she is and what kind of man you are.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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