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    Default Need advice on what to say on dates

    Hey guys..I am always stuck and get jammed during dates when I start thinking on what to say next during dates or outings with a girl I picked up...I always end up with bullshit like - so where you from or you enjoyed the movie or what is your hobby and awful things like that. I hate it when I do that. I read how most you guys just cruise along with meeting the girl and the next thing I read..you got laid.. Please help me with some ideas or routine that you guys use with great success..

    Thank you for your time

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    Default Re: Need advice on what to say on dates

    From what you wrote it to me it sounds like you automatically go autopilot cause you feel like you ran out of things to say/talk about...

    One thing I used to do was pick up a newspaper or read online articles that were interesting and pick out 5 different topics and include them into a conversation i've done it so much that I don't run into what you're running into anymore

    A way to include it would be " Oh the other day I was read/seen a thing about (topic here) that I found (Online/newspaper) it was about...... "

    Another one could be about a viral video for example the guy with his go pro when he jumped in there was a shark a few inches away from him to include that you could say "Did you see that video of the guy who jumped into the sea and the shark was really close to him? "

    Of course you'll need to calibrate and know when to say it
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    Default Re: Need advice on what to say on dates

    You can also aim to do more activity based dates like bowling or playing pool.

    In the meantime, you need to work on your conversation skills. Your complaint is valid, the questions are boring. Your goal is to be able to steer a conversation. look up articles on framing. The idea is to talk about emotions to establish connection. Instead of asking "what is your hobby" ask "what are your passions" or "what are you passionate about?" If a woman asks these boring questions, neg her for it, then use it as an opportunity to steer the conversation.

    Her: "where are you from?"
    You: "San francisco, but that's pretty boring. how about I tell you where I want to go?"


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