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Thread: I ALWAYS get ignored after number closes ! WHY?

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    Default I ALWAYS get ignored after number closes ! WHY?

    Was at the club this past week , me and my wing were doing a lap around the club when these 2 super cute girls opened us.
    I started gaming the one girl and she was absolutely loving it. ( I'm guessing she was attracted to my looks that's why she opened us )
    I'm hitting her with Cajuns little sister routine. Dhving myself and steady kino ( hand holding , arm around )

    I then hit her with the compliance test I say I wanna introduce you to some of my other friends... ( her other friend dipped I guess she wasn't feeling my wing but instead brought over there other friend who was a grenade launcher for my wing he wasn't feeling that)

    Anyway I get her hand and bring her with me. I've heard that if I can move a girl 5 feet away from her friends this is a huge ioi and compliance test.
    I take her to the dance floor she's from another country by the way so I kind of have to teach her to dance a bit but things are going well
    I turn her around and start kissing her

    Then after a bit she wants to go find her friends i grab her number she gives it to me right away cause I say I'm going somewhere else but she keeps grabbing my hand and doesn't want me to leave her.

    I see her later in the night and tell her I can drive her home so I leave my wing to drive her and her friend home they were gonna have to take the bus ( should I have not done this )

    Anyway when she's leaving the car she kind of grabs my arm in a flirty way so I wait two days and send her this
    Hey window licker ( inside joke) good day for some tea and buiscuits : she doesn't respond at all
    She was from England so I thought this would be a funny and playful way

    I don't understand how I always close have a good time build all this up and always be ignored when I message them what am I doing wrong !

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS get ignored after number closes ! WHY?

    Quote Originally Posted by Stealthy_hubert View Post
    I don't understand how I always close have a good time build all this up and always be ignored when I message them what am I doing wrong !
    Why are you doing something wrong? You are out, having a good time, meeting women and not creeping them out. You don't need to analyze this stuff a lot man. It is a club. Women in clubs are scandalous, plain and simple. They just want to toy with you most of the time. Unless you are some spectacular guy who really gets her spark flying, she will most likely lose interest.

    I've found that you can't really trust even strong IOI's in a deep club scene. It's one thing down at your local corner watering hole, but big clubs are basically all about glitz, glamour, bright lights and loud music getting people high. I completely avoid them, as they really are just another example of commercialized marketing scams. Want to meet women that like music? Try music festivals. Meet the chicks around the drum circles or in front of the water stand. Hell steal some from one of the DJ's! That is where real game can be played.

    Sure, anything is possible for certain men of social standing, but don't get discouraged by this flaky behavior. It is increasingly common. You aren't doing anything wrong because you aren't creeping girls out with lame lines, etc. You aren't getting blown out. So the best thing to do is just chalk it up as her mistake, rather than yours, and move on.

    The best place for club game isn't in the club IMO, it's out in FRONT of the club. I've met way more women while standing outside having a cigarette than I ever have with "dance floor game" or whatever techniques are out there these days. I haven't kept up on PUA as an art in a few years since transitioning into natural game and adjusting my venues to match my particular gaming style.

    One thing I know for sure is that if your field report is to be believed, and I believe it.. you aren't doing anything wrong at all. You are just another "random" who she wasn't really "all that into" to answer you. That isn't your fault, it is her own weakness.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS get ignored after number closes ! WHY?

    Okay, couple of things that is universally taught in the PUA circles.

    - First of all, you don't wait 2 or 3 days. No such thing as a 2 to 3 day rule. Her attraction is fleeting and 2 or 3 days it could've subsided as she moves on to other things. Her logical part of her brain kicks in. You should be texting her within the next hour up to the next day. So you made the mistake here by not keeping the momentum.

    - Okay so she is English. Keep in mind that gaming foreign girls is tougher because our humor may not translate over. Sometimes what we consider as playful teases/disqualifiers could be taken as an insult.

    - 3rd as I said in my other post. Set up a date right there. If she says she is busy, then ask her "Well, when will you not be busy?" and if she gives you the run around, then that is when I would say "You know what? It's okay. You don't seem excited enough. It was nice meeting you." That puts you in the frame of you weeding her out, not the other way around.

    Right now, you shouldn't be compromising your frame and innergame with "What am I doing wrong?" You are telling yourself "you are not good enough" because a girl didn't respond to your text. A lot of guys do this. And most of the time, it's on the girl, not the guy. 80/20 rule. 80 percent it's on her. She could be foreign, she could lack social intelligence, she could be crazy, she could have had a bad day, etc. The above method will rectify that.

    I suggest you start reading up on some texting guides. Invest in yourself if you are serious. Forums can only help you so much.

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    Default Re: I ALWAYS get ignored after number closes ! WHY?

    Simple. I have a few simple rules. Girls don't joke around man. Some girls I date, some girls I hang out with, and some girls I want to hookup with. You must have a goal. GF, date, hookup, or hang out. NEVER text or call a girl without a plan worst self-disaster ever. Ever since I started contacting for dates? BOOM like magic they respond like wildfire. But that gets old too. So depending on how I feel I date them, try to hookup with them, hang out with them, or some type of goal. Don't try to get a GF that's a self-defeating goal. Try to meet lots of women and eventually it will all work itself out in the end. My goal of getting a GF was dumb. Now I had too many. So I just go with the flow. Eventually I will have another GF easily because I focus on Dating, Hooking up, and Hanging Out. Get a goal pick one and wing it. Texting girls for fun rarely ever works.
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