Been on the whole 30 day challenge. though I dont follow it assiduously. I have boards coming up. But- I read on how he gets numbers and its amazing. went to gym today and saw a girl there. she owns the place. we started talking and i figured id close on her. she showed no iois or signs of interest. and i realized- how many other girls must have i gone by talking to only to ignore them or not ask them out. well today i decided to use strauss' number close.
when i was leaving i asked for pen and paper. talked to her. wrote my info down - she couldnt see what i wrote. talked to her some more. then gave her and had her write it down. she gave me her number. i made sure to talk to her more (so it wasnt as if i was just talking for number).
Then I realized- this is so easy. I mean a lot of what holds me back is the anxiety of trying to figure out what to do next. but its so easy once you know how to go about it.
i feel great about this. yesterday i got a number from a girl i wasnt too interested in. she seemed really sad and needy but had a past drug history which scared me away. ill probably stay in touch with her but still. im so happy. can you imagine how many girls out there are just looking for a connection?
No wonder women end up with jerks- they have no emotions and dont care. I'm not like that at all and yet here I am getting numbers.
Obv this means little and i have zero interest in her but its all practice.