Theres a guy I know who is a true alpha. I mean this guy gets HB 9s and HB10s like they're nothing and gets Hb 6-8s like we find pennies in our couch. He can be an arrogant jerk and he is. A lot of people say they dont like him but I think its because they are secretly jealous. He's buff as hell (and def. takes stuff) and he's 6 feet. But he's not the best looking guy. Not ugly but not hot. I know girls who wont go near him by a 10 foot pole but thats neither here nor there.
He's a med student too but he used to be a super nerdy awkward guy just tall. He definitely worked on his game- a few years ago I'd see him with blonde highlights etc working on his appearance and lifting etc. His older pics show him super nerdy and skinny but now he's different. But he's the guy who goes out- he's your stereotypical alpha who is at every club and every party and is the center of attention. He also has that nerdy side that he used to be and I see it here and there.
What I would truly love to know is what are all the things alphas do. how do alphas become alphas? Does it require height?
I would say I am way better looking than him and much smarter- but clearly having the same degree doesnt differentiate me from him. What I know is that I wouldnt trade places with what I have genetically (looks, high intelligence) with him ever- but I want to have his lifestyle.
What do I have to do to get there? How do I become the guy other guys want to be like? What baby steps can I take to get there.
Does this come with finding activities to do and training myself. I'm thinking of working on my voice and learning to sing and play the guitar- John Mayer style along with going to as many events as possible and being the center of attention for like hb 5-7s and hopefully going somewhere with that....and then upgrading.
My problem is that I'm 5'6 - I wear lifts that make me 5'8 and I'm thinking of making myself 5'9. But no matter what I do I can't seem to get to that level.
I am very very attractive though. 2 weeks ago in med school I had a cut off black shirt on and was ripped. Every head was turned towards me. People were staring at me in the room- there were at least 100 people. Girls were just in love with how I looked (this was in med school so that aspect didnt play much of a role- I assume female docs arent as impressed with male docs). So I know I have a lot going for me I just need to be assertive.