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Thread: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

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    Default what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    Theres a guy I know who is a true alpha. I mean this guy gets HB 9s and HB10s like they're nothing and gets Hb 6-8s like we find pennies in our couch. He can be an arrogant jerk and he is. A lot of people say they dont like him but I think its because they are secretly jealous. He's buff as hell (and def. takes stuff) and he's 6 feet. But he's not the best looking guy. Not ugly but not hot. I know girls who wont go near him by a 10 foot pole but thats neither here nor there.

    He's a med student too but he used to be a super nerdy awkward guy just tall. He definitely worked on his game- a few years ago I'd see him with blonde highlights etc working on his appearance and lifting etc. His older pics show him super nerdy and skinny but now he's different. But he's the guy who goes out- he's your stereotypical alpha who is at every club and every party and is the center of attention. He also has that nerdy side that he used to be and I see it here and there.

    What I would truly love to know is what are all the things alphas do. how do alphas become alphas? Does it require height?

    I would say I am way better looking than him and much smarter- but clearly having the same degree doesnt differentiate me from him. What I know is that I wouldnt trade places with what I have genetically (looks, high intelligence) with him ever- but I want to have his lifestyle.

    What do I have to do to get there? How do I become the guy other guys want to be like? What baby steps can I take to get there.

    Does this come with finding activities to do and training myself. I'm thinking of working on my voice and learning to sing and play the guitar- John Mayer style along with going to as many events as possible and being the center of attention for like hb 5-7s and hopefully going somewhere with that....and then upgrading.

    any advice?

    My problem is that I'm 5'6 - I wear lifts that make me 5'8 and I'm thinking of making myself 5'9. But no matter what I do I can't seem to get to that level.

    I am very very attractive though. 2 weeks ago in med school I had a cut off black shirt on and was ripped. Every head was turned towards me. People were staring at me in the room- there were at least 100 people. Girls were just in love with how I looked (this was in med school so that aspect didnt play much of a role- I assume female docs arent as impressed with male docs). So I know I have a lot going for me I just need to be assertive.

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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    I know an Alpha that is 5'6 that is the center of attention of my Club and he is 43 banging 20 yr olds like they are his necklaces. Height yes normally to be Alpha you must be tall just use what you have been given. Being short is a disadvantage you have to make up for in personality most chicks do care about height. Cuz I am 6'3 I got nothing to worry about. But I think chicks want a big d!ck more than a tall dude just my opinion.
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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    You shouldn't worry about being alpha all the time. Sometimes being "beta" can help you in certain situations. That being said, there certain qualities that will make you more "alpha", but I view them as attractive qualities. Some of these are taking up a lot of space while walking, sitting, or standing confidently. Project yourself with a loud, deep voice and speak with certainty in your words. Be non-reactive but still be playful and have a range of emotions. Own your actions and escalate. You know what you want and are going after it.
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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    I am an Alpha though I get into all the Clubs and Concerts for free, I know the bartenders and they always flirt with me and give me free drinks. My friends are always jealous of my life and guys mock me a lot cuz they want to be me. My Gym instructor who I told when he asked me a year ago "why do you come here?" I said to get buff cuz chicks won't shut up about having a buff dude. He's was like cool. Then I said I am getting tatted for women too. He tore into me(politely) "really what if you regret it when you are 40? I told him well I am getting tatted either way sooo...

    He seemed pretty bent. My Gym instructor is about as good looking as me (I am a stud) and most guys are not good looking as me. I am usually the hottest one in the Club. But anyway some guys match up for sure.

    But carrying on my Gym Instructor has a full sleeve so it was kinda insulting to have him delete me and block me from FB when he found out I got my first tatt. Like dude I go to your Gym. But I see it in his eyes he has a plain black full sleeve pretty good tatt. Probably doesn't want dudes looking better than him.

    Anyway I had a huge gap in between my last tatt and I saw him laughing again that look in his eye. PITY. Probably thinking how stupid I looked with a huge empty gap in between tatts and how stupid to get tatted for women. Then I filled the gap? No more laughing I seen the jealousy again cuz we covered the gap. Now we are about to rock a killer tatt the best yet my tiresome labor like seriously the hardest tatt we have come up with. Going to nearly finish my sleeve. He will see me and if I look better than him he will probably be looking glum as hell. JEALOUSY.

    But yes I walk into a room now and people start talking about tatts and how to get tatts. Literally people stopping dead in their tracks but we are just warming up and next month I'll have the feedback on it as it will be mine. That's what I do in my spare time. Other guys mock me and hate me cuz I am beautiful and I see the look in their eye I know what it is now. ENVY.
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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    Only betas compare themselves to others. An Alpha knows that he is attractive, that's it.

    An Alpha does whatever he wants. If he wants to sing he sings, if he wants to dance he dances but he does not do these things because he wants to look "cool" in front of people, he does it because he likes it.

    When you do something you love, it gives you this certain confidence and an awesome vibe. An alpha can collect stamps and still be the center of attention if he puts his heart into it. For when you do something you love you are happy about it, on the other hand you'd get bored and (law of transference) people around you would get bored.

    Please don't tell us how attractive you are. Okay so people were staring at you, but did you at least approach? You just got lucky in the genetic pool, don't let that stop you from growing and improving your game. You could actually draw confidence and assertiveness from your looks but don't be the "good looking guy" who is lame and shitty.

    Oh and wear boots or dress shoes.

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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    Say wha? It's not about looks dawg it's about money!!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    Well anyway I wish you the best and good luck out there big boi and happy travels!!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: what do true alphas do in their spare time?

    I love your comments. I love your humor. Hah.

    Well you guys are right its all about internalizing your confidence and not worrying about what others think. True confidence is about not caring if others like you or not.

    I have to work on that and I will be good.


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