How to proceed? Still can't let it go. A year later and the 10 from the Bar and the HB9 Cocktail Waitress are always on my mind. Last year the Cocktail Waitress tried to hookup with me then bailed and was in total denial and will never talk to me on FB after that. The same with the 10 from the Bar. Was friends with both of them on FB and screwed things up and got removed. Now stuck in no man's land sending messages into the abyss with no return no matter how dramatic or extreme. Nothing works on them and I am haunted by my past cuz these were two perfect situations that were my fault where they were trying to get at me but my fear success was getting in the way of believing they liked me so they walked away. Now every thing is perfect with the new 9 but I really could care less I played my cards perfectly. I just want the old flames? Is there any chance? I will see the Cocktail Waitress at a couple shows and at the Club. I will never see the 10 again. I can always move on but it bugs me that they never block me just let me talk to thin air. What purpose does that serve? I am getting so good with the new stuff but I sucked last year and I am trying to reconcile myself. Any help???