I'll try and give you the sparknotes the scenario here.
Met this chick a couple weekends ago through a friend, we clicked, I brought her home and we go the distance a few times that night/next morning.
I text her a couple days later, shes kind of cold. So i'm like whatever, not worth my time if shes not interested.
Then she texts me Thursday night, I make her laugh a bit, jokingly say when we are meeting up for round 2. She says lets do it tomorrow night. Likely just meet up for drinks when our friends. Super casual.
Around 11, text her no response, try calling her once, no response. Oh well, meet some other chick that night and go home with her.
Next morning I text mrs flakey and just say "Tony Ditcher." Shes says i'm sorry I got super drunk, blah blah. Whatever I don't respond, she texts back a bit after and goes I don't work Monday night. So I say alright lets hang Monday then. (I should mention she is super hot, one of the hottest i've had, so I really would like round 2). Anyway she agrees, plans to chill Monday (tonight).
Monday - I text her this afternoon what time are you free? She says - As soon as I finish this essay. I have to do a bit of stuff so it may not be till later. I text back so what time are you thinking? No response. Text her at like 7:30 "So whats the deal?" No response.
So ya i'm a little annoyed, plenty of other stuff I could have been doing, as I had buddies that wanted to golf, and haven't seen my folks in a few weeks. Just looking for the best way to handle this.
A couple options in my head:
1. Ignore her, cut off all contact.
2. Text and her and tell her she messed up, and I value my time, and dont dig people that cant keep their word, so don't bother.
3. Wait for her to text me and, tell her #2.
3. I should mention she left her leather coat at my place the first night, so she is going to need to grab that at some point. Another option is play it cool - make plans either to meet up again, or for her to grab her coat, and then just not be home, and give her a taste of what its like to get blown off.
Any advice, is good. Keep in mind she is hot, and would like to get her as a regular, but at the same time I've got values and don't take to kindly to getting jerked around.