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Thread: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

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    Default Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    I'm overweight by about 50 lbs. I'm about 5'9 which isn't too tall. I know, i know, inner-game, blah blah blah. Let me say I've been going out a lot and approaching a lot of different girls, and I haven't been successful yet. The hardest is trying to talk to girls at the club. I've had girls literally just look at me and walk away before. Is there something I can try, or do I just have to lose weight (which i am currently doing anyway)

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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    hey man honestly club game is what i find the hardest of them all. however i find it doesnt matter too much what you look like ..ive seen hb 10s with heavier guys, guys who looked scruffy with no fashion sense what so ever etc

    its all about your game... when i started going to clubs i would get the same response as you (few natural game lucky sets ) and i am 6'2 athletic build and tattooed its all about lighting that spark dont worry about the rejections and keep the game going! it happens to all of us dont lose confidence and blame your looks but rather work on your game, the women are hardwired to be attracted to certain things so if you have game anyone can pull anyone..just my advice on the topic.

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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    I've danced with many 10's and i'm a chubby 5'6 asian dude. If your personality shows people will genuinely be open to you. More than likely if you're too friendly and all of a sudden ask her out or get her number the more likely she'll shut down if she didnt feel attracted to you and make up her mind about likeing you first. If a girl seems like the open minded type the more likely she'll hesitate and maybe say yes. So make sure you're reading all the signs to show off what kind of personality type she's putting out.

    I've gotten number closes and kino arms, legs belly azz on a girl before. Most of the time on the floor i just dont care about closing. Ifs all a game to me... And im making myself laugh. I think thats why most people make room for me when is start dancing.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    What artandale said.

    Also what you can do is just make the most out of it. That's what you have, accept it.

    Always look at the positive side but don't let that stop you from improving. Define success? You're a "fatpuasteve" approaching girls. You're doing better than 80% of the male population.

    You don't necessarily have to be RIPPED. Just start eating healthy and working out a bit. Learn to take care of yourself and trust me you'll feel better. Start with 30mins. a day or something.

    Do it for yourself, not for the chick.

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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    You look good, you feel good! You've already figured out your problem, inner game. Your subconscious confidence is a mess before you even approach because you're self conscious about your weight.

    A close friend of mine & seasoned pua is like 250lbs haha. Now, he's like 6', but... HES STILL 250lbs! Point of it is, he takes care of his skin, his hair, his clothes... he's got a great sense of humor, he's cultured... are you understanding what I'm saying? He doesn't let his weight hold him back because he's not trying to be something he's not.

    My best advice, become the person you want to be, then focus on the woman.
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    I would call her - Skee Lo, the OG AFC

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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    Looks don't matter as much with girls, as long as you are well-groomed and have good style. It won't affect your game if you don't let it. Just own yourself and your actions and women will be drawn toward that.
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    Default Re: Is it possible for a fat/short guy to night game at the club?

    You can control your weight. Lose the weight and you won't have to worry about being fat.

    While great inner game can make up for your appearance to some extent, you're still always going to be making up for it.

    How about you go to the gym, start controlling your diet and work on losing weight? Do yourself a favor, it will help your inner game more than anything else in the long run.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."


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