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    Default Friendzoned or not..

    Hi experts..

    I met this girl at a dance club. Managed to get basic conversation going and got her number as well. (girls REALLY behave differently when they are little drunk). I was texting her random stuff on sun signs and she responded the same night and next day morning.

    I tried calling her next day. No response. I texted her again. She replied "nice talking to you..but i dont want to get involved with anyone. i am not saying you are trying to". I said "thats ok" and kept texting her (nothing sexual/flirting). She is responding well to texts. I am not sure if she is treating me as friend.

    Am i already friendzoned? If yes..how to get out of it.

    Thanks
    Tarun

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    You're friendzoneded. You forgot to break rapport to thrkw her off on labeling you as another guy. I'd call it quits or resort to The Friend Zone Slayer by Kyle. Great guide to changing your life.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    Yes you're friendzoned, but that doesn't mean you don't have a shot. You could've handled it better to avoid it in the first place, but what you can do now is get more physical.

    Meaning you use your touch to build sexual tension while your words are friendly. Like it's not even happening. You have to hide her from her inhibitions by never talking about sex or being together in a romantic way. When women say "Just let it happen" it translates to "Don't talk about it and be about it." So now you're gonna have to rely on your kino game while your convos are completely platonic.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    thanks artandale and batman.

    artandale..is there a link to the friendzone slayer by kyle.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    Click my name & view my threads.
    Thanks Artandale I appreciate it whenever you bring up my guide, Even though it's not foolproof. Takes to long to write a foolproof guide when I'm not getting paid.

    My guide is more about changing your life, & improving your chances in an all out shot.
    More college game advice.
    If you want to take it slower, Batmans advice is perfect.

    You can pretty much avoid the friend zone completely just by letting her know that you find her extremely attractive, then just disqualifying her until the time is right.

    Example: "You know Rachel, you're so smart, & you have gorgeous eyes, it's just too bad I only see you as a friend or I'd have to take you out sometime. Probably rob a couple banks with ya & steal ya away for a weekend in Mexico, but you probably couldn't handle it."


    I just don't have patience. I'm a straight savage when it comes to girls & dealing with there shit.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    I think as everyone said your reaction to her text was wrong. You should read red baron's frame control guide on here. Gives you some responses to help you out.

    In general, friend zone should never be an obstacle... Unless you fall for her. If you keep her around, you can escalate physically and hang out and game normally but if you like her your game will be way off until it dies around her.
    Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.
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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    This exactly. ^

    Good input Lockdown.

    If you have feelings for her your game will die. I've been there myself for a long time until I finally learned. I'm sure many others have experienced the same thing.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    Thanks everyone. Will try your suggestions.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    How's your intial conversation with her?
    As I know, most guys get friend zoned becasue they are asking some fact-exchanging question in their conversation, that bored the girl.

    Besides, do examine also if you are come across as an attractive man to her?

    If no, nothing else will be a big help here.

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    Default Re: Friendzoned or not..

    Napolean,

    I started dancing with her first. So there was lot of kino and interest. It was her friends who pulled her out from me. I felt she was interested in me. May be it's the beer that made her bold. I also learnt that she broke up recently. That's why the next morning..she decided not to pursue any relationship.

    We have been text buddies (general non sexual stuff) for a week.
    I have decided not to text her (ie. initiate) for 2 weeks. Lets see how it goes. But i have already moved on

    Anyways..thx for the tips again.


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