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Thread: What is wrong with me?

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    Default What is wrong with me?

    Hey guys,

    Been a while since my last post.

    Introduction:

    6 months ago I ended a long term relationship (6years). After a few weeks I discovered the "magical" world of PUA. After reading books, watching videos, crawling through all of these interesting cases on the forum,... I started getting "out on the field".

    The progress I've been making is insane... I lost all of my AA (I literally enjoy approaching girls, meeting new people, etc... it's my a lifestyle). Over the past months I've had 50+ k-closes, and 12 f-closes.

    The problem:

    Two weeks ago I met this amazing American girl at Tomorrowland. She's modelling, studying law, and all in all she's hilarious. The connection was right, and we spend the entire festival together. (she even bought me a new iphone when my previous one died!)

    After Tomorrowland she went to England for her summerschool. We stayed in contact... AND last weekend she came visiting me in Belgium for 4 days. We lived together for 4 days... and had TONS OF FUN.

    Now... in two weeks she's going back to the US.. so chances are high I will never see her again in my life (or not soon at least), unless we meet up again in the next two weeks.

    Yesterday she asked if I would like to come over for the weekend in England. While I would love to spend another weekend with her... both of my weekends are already filled with activities with my friends.

    My options:

    A. Cancel my plans and visit her in England

    This is the emotional decision I want to make.
    I really like her, and right now... I just want to spend more time with her.
    Problem: I always apply the basic rule "Bro's before ho's". We're going to a festival as a group, and I don't want to drop out last minute.

    B. Forget about her

    This is the rational decision I want to make.
    I have to forget about her, since it's impossible to have a relationship (or something close to that), when you live that far from one another. Meeting her another weekend, would make me "suffer" even more/ make it harder to forget her.

    Note:

    I don't believe she's "the one", yet... from all the girls I've met over the past few months... she's the only one who really got me interested in more.

    Your feedback:

    Be honest, to-the-point and most importantly: tell me exactly what I need to hear. Because at the moment, I feel like emotions are taking over my mind!

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    Default Re: What is wrong with me?

    If you really think that there can be no future with you two, then move on. Plenty of fish in the sea. It's cliche but true. You'll meet someone else who does the things she did for you eventually ... and maybe even better.

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    Default Re: What is wrong with me?

    My options:

    A. Cancel my plans and visit her in England

    This is the emotional decision I want to make.
    I really like her, and right now... I just want to spend more time with her.
    Problem: I always apply the basic rule "Bro's before ho's". We're going to a festival as a group, and I don't want to drop out last minute.

    B. Forget about her

    This is the rational decision I want to make.
    I have to forget about her, since it's impossible to have a relationship (or something close to that), when you live that far from one another. Meeting her another weekend, would make me "suffer" even more/ make it harder to forget her.
    here's my honest opinion.

    I have this rule, "never cancel your own plans" as in, if I invite someone to do something with me, that's what I'm going to do unless there's an emergency. I believe a man is only as good as his word. that means keeping plans if you make them.

    honestly, with either option you're going to have to forget about her. why not make it easier on yourself by telling her goodbye when she leaves for London?

    girls come and go. true friends are a lot harder to find.


    remember, logic beats emotion.


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