Been a while since my last post.
6 months ago I ended a long term relationship (6years). After a few weeks I discovered the "magical" world of PUA. After reading books, watching videos, crawling through all of these interesting cases on the forum,... I started getting "out on the field".
The progress I've been making is insane... I lost all of my AA (I literally enjoy approaching girls, meeting new people, etc... it's my a lifestyle). Over the past months I've had 50+ k-closes, and 12 f-closes.
Two weeks ago I met this amazing American girl at Tomorrowland. She's modelling, studying law, and all in all she's hilarious. The connection was right, and we spend the entire festival together. (she even bought me a new iphone when my previous one died!)
After Tomorrowland she went to England for her summerschool. We stayed in contact... AND last weekend she came visiting me in Belgium for 4 days. We lived together for 4 days... and had TONS OF FUN.
Now... in two weeks she's going back to the US.. so chances are high I will never see her again in my life (or not soon at least), unless we meet up again in the next two weeks.
Yesterday she asked if I would like to come over for the weekend in England. While I would love to spend another weekend with her... both of my weekends are already filled with activities with my friends.
A. Cancel my plans and visit her in England
This is the emotional decision I want to make.
I really like her, and right now... I just want to spend more time with her.
Problem: I always apply the basic rule "Bro's before ho's". We're going to a festival as a group, and I don't want to drop out last minute.
B. Forget about her
This is the rational decision I want to make.
I have to forget about her, since it's impossible to have a relationship (or something close to that), when you live that far from one another. Meeting her another weekend, would make me "suffer" even more/ make it harder to forget her.
I don't believe she's "the one", yet... from all the girls I've met over the past few months... she's the only one who really got me interested in more.
Be honest, to-the-point and most importantly: tell me exactly what I need to hear. Because at the moment, I feel like emotions are taking over my mind!