This whole CBT and confidence is amazing. Look- eye contact IMO is 100% the secret to success. I swear, thats all it takes. But you have to do it 100% right. When you look your eyes cant waver not even half a second or its over. You cant twitch, move around, smile nervously. You can't do any of that. You have to be 100% Clark Kent laser eyes on her and eye her eyes.
Anway I do that with so many women now and the responses I get are powerful.
I went to Chik Fil E and ordered from this kinda cute girl. She was definitely intrigued and we had hand contact- everytime she gave me something my hand lingered on hers while I maintained eye contact. The second time she was to come over she seemed nervous- helping everyone but me and kept turning towards me before helping someone else- as if she was trying to come see me but something was holding her back. The second time I had my hand on her even longer and we maintained even more eye contact. I'm sure I made her heart race because her words and expressions fell apart. She probably felt embarassed.
Anyway I wanted to ask her name and start a convo but it seems a bit out of the ordinary- I mean is this the way to go with these people who work or is there something else I can do?
When I get the same reaction from another girl- how can I escalate it and do it in an appropriate way.
Its not like the movies where you can write your number down and have her write hers expecting sex. - what else can I do to escalate to a number close when there are customers and staff around without making her feel uncomfortable. Or should I not care and just go for it. IE- whats your name, where are you from are u studying here bla bla bla (talk until something quickly appears similar bw us- make a connection- get her number and leave?)
Obviously I would only do this if it werent busy (or she would have to leave and I'd be empty handed with the cat out of the bag).