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Thread: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

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    Default Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    This whole CBT and confidence is amazing. Look- eye contact IMO is 100% the secret to success. I swear, thats all it takes. But you have to do it 100% right. When you look your eyes cant waver not even half a second or its over. You cant twitch, move around, smile nervously. You can't do any of that. You have to be 100% Clark Kent laser eyes on her and eye her eyes.

    Anway I do that with so many women now and the responses I get are powerful.

    I went to Chik Fil E and ordered from this kinda cute girl. She was definitely intrigued and we had hand contact- everytime she gave me something my hand lingered on hers while I maintained eye contact. The second time she was to come over she seemed nervous- helping everyone but me and kept turning towards me before helping someone else- as if she was trying to come see me but something was holding her back. The second time I had my hand on her even longer and we maintained even more eye contact. I'm sure I made her heart race because her words and expressions fell apart. She probably felt embarassed.

    Anyway I wanted to ask her name and start a convo but it seems a bit out of the ordinary- I mean is this the way to go with these people who work or is there something else I can do?

    When I get the same reaction from another girl- how can I escalate it and do it in an appropriate way.

    Its not like the movies where you can write your number down and have her write hers expecting sex. - what else can I do to escalate to a number close when there are customers and staff around without making her feel uncomfortable. Or should I not care and just go for it. IE- whats your name, where are you from are u studying here bla bla bla (talk until something quickly appears similar bw us- make a connection- get her number and leave?)

    Obviously I would only do this if it werent busy (or she would have to leave and I'd be empty handed with the cat out of the bag).

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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    TEASE!
    That's the key.

    I went to grab a beer with my future step son & the hostess went to seat us in one of the sections, but walked past the entrance, then had to double back.

    I busted on her & jokingly asked her "What? did you get lost? Is this your first day?"
    She replied & said that it WAS INDEED her first day. She kept coming back to check on us. (NOT what a hostess usually does.)



    I also noticed that most of the wait staff had tattoos.
    So I asked one of the other waitresses, (not ours) as she was clearing a table, if it was a requirement to have a tattoo to work there.

    She laughed & we chatted for a minute while I grabbed her sleeve & pulled it up to check out her ink.

    SHE kept coming back to check on us too... and we weren't one of her tables.

    The reason they reacted that way is because, I exuded confidence. (And humor) I was bold & "different". Most guys would be scared sh!tless to do that sort of thing, yet it WORKS!

    Yes I was flirting.
    No I wasn't trying to pick them up... which meant I didn't give a crap about the outcome. That's GOLD!

    Girls LOVE it when a guy is bold, direct & confident, but not overtly sexual. They like to "wonder" while the interaction is happening.

    When you make eye contact & tease / banter with her, she's GONNA notice & react out of curiosity. It's psychology in its basic form.

    Just like the Chick-Fil-A girl got flustered when you held eye contact & expressed confidence, it works wonders in MOST situations.

    If you want to ask her out, you need to make sure there's interest on her part,... then say something like, "Hey, I'm totally into xxxxxx... I'm going this Friday night. Have you ever been? Please tel me yes!" then wink & smile. Then say, "You sooooo have to check it out! I'll walk you through it if you're a beginner. I have a feeling though that you'll catch on quickly." (Qualifying her to you)

    The secret is to make her feel drawn to you & want to know more about you.

    Don't just "ask her out"... Imply that she already WANTS to go out with you, & invite her.


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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    Ah! Even if I dont plan to go I can invite her as a way to get the number and go from there....

    There's so many opportunities!

    I have to now recognize the difference between wonderment/excitement and genuine interest.

    This is something that will take time.

    How to differentiate bw the two?

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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    There IS NO difference. \

    Wonderment / excitement = curiosity.
    Curiosity IS attraction.



    Girls WANT to give their numbers out to guys... but not just any & every schmuck who "asks for it".

    They want MEN who pique their curiosity.

    Getting the number should be easy... like being able to do that in your sleep.

    And once you get the number, everything else is a cakewalk too. (or at least it SHOULD be)

    Keep the confidence & keep pushing the limits.
    If you go too far, learn from it & dial it back next time.
    (and yes, there is ALWAYS a next time / new girl)


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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    Eye contact is very powerful. Just be light and playful with her. Be the social guy. If you plan on social proofing a venue, I wouldn't recommend asking her out. Otherwise just game her normally but don't escalate too much. Get her number and set up an activity outside.
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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    I agree with the "playful/ social guy" aspect.

    Otherwise, I say ALWAYS escalate.
    But do it with style/class.


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    Default Re: Pretty girl at fast food how to ask her out?

    Any thoughts how to go about it. In these fast food places you have limited time.


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