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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fire Eater View Post
    How did you ever deal with AA?
    I forced myself to start "opening" EVERYBODY... everywhere I went.
    Just saying hello, or making a comment to a random person in whatever setting I was in.

    I wasn't trying to "pick anyone up"... I was just "approaching" & initiating an interaction.

    After about 3-4 people it was easy... Then I kept doing it every day.

    Now I have ZERO issues with chatting up complete strangers... men OR women.


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    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    T-Mal I got skills but there is one thing I am a huge failure at...online stuff. FB, POF, Tinder, etc I cannot get a number online and rarely a friend. Tried everything any advice thanks.
    Online game is like "fishing with dynamite"... or at least it SHOULD be.

    You need a bangin written profile & good photos.
    Then your initial email opener has to stand out from every other schmuck on the website who is most likely ALSO sending that girl messages.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    We all know you're supposed to be fun and flirty with a girl, but at what point (if ever) should you take a more serious tone? There have been times when almost all my interactions with a girl are light-hearted, which is great, but I sometimes wonder if they perceive me as one-dimensional - that I'm funny, but not "cool", sophisticated, or anything else.

    This same concept applies to texting - should you *ever* talk about serious things over text, or should it be exclusively light-hearted?
    You have to pay attention & know when it's time to be more "serious".
    But ALWAYS be fun & flirty in the beginning.

    Texting is just another form of communication.
    But in the beginning stages keep everything lift & playful.
    Then let the "relationship" take it's course & progress accordingly.


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    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    Few questions T- Mal...

    Hows the text app going?
    Are you still experimenting in text game?
    What are some plain and simple IOIs from texting besides responding too quickly and texting in bigger blocks than the other person?
    I look at EVERYTHING as an experiment nowadays.
    I push the boundaries whenever possible, just to see what happens, and if I go too far, what I can do to reign it back in.

    Guys worry too much about "double-texting / & replying immediately" waaaaaay more than they should.

    It's the biggest problem that guys have (And usually don't realize) is that they're BORING when they text.

    Sending stuff like "Hey, what's up?" or "How was your day?" or "Wanna hang out?" etc...
    OR they talk about work / school... which will kill attraction.

    Personally I always lead the interaction... so I frequently text first... & even send longer messages than the girl does in the beginning.

    I'll sometimes purposely double-text, just because.
    But the key is to mix it up... timing, message length & content.



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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Girls that I've met before getting into this gaming stuff are lost causes? Or is there a way to 'reset' the relationship in order to game them?

    I haven't gamed in a while, keep this up for when I get back with more questions

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Hey T-Mal,

    My biggest issue is text game. I'm great in person but once it turns into the number game I do horrible. I try not to even resort to texting cause I get nervous and lose touch with many girls like that, I just don't understand what I am doing ,building comfort or attracting, or what?

    What are some things I can start doing right away to improve my text game. Any suggestions would be helpful I don't like text game because I'm horrible at it, but I understand I have to get better at it.

    Thanks

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    I need advice on how you become more sociable if your job is from home, friends moved away and you aren't into the club scene?

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    I'm not T-mal but i would suggest you look into taking everyday strides to interact with people during your small routines outside of your home or office. Talk to people on the street, park, coffee shop, etc...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Quote Originally Posted by Shark1804 View Post
    Girls that I've met before getting into this gaming stuff are lost causes? Or is there a way to 'reset' the relationship in order to game them?

    I haven't gamed in a while, keep this up for when I get back with more questions
    I've absolutely re-gamed girls I lost touch with before.
    A couple of them I hadn't spoken to in almost 2 years...

    I just sent a quick text like "Hey Spunky pants.. having a margarita & thought of you. "

    They replied right away & knew who I was, even though I didn't say "Hey, it's Mark"...

    You can definitely game girls you know from a previous time in your life, whether you gamed them before or not.


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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Quote Originally Posted by wildstorms View Post
    Hey T-Mal,

    My biggest issue is text game. I'm great in person but once it turns into the number game I do horrible. I try not to even resort to texting cause I get nervous and lose touch with many girls like that, I just don't understand what I am doing ,building comfort or attracting, or what?

    What are some things I can start doing right away to improve my text game. Any suggestions would be helpful I don't like text game because I'm horrible at it, but I understand I have to get better at it.

    Thanks
    There are a couple great texting guides here in the forums. Definitely read them.

    It just takes practice, and a conscious effort to remember that you're texting with a PURPOSE... not just chit-chatting for the sake of talking to her.


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