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    Default What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    I've invested over 2 years into PUA because, I discovered the techniques DO work, and I've been through a Zillion situations.

    If you want advice from experience, gimme a shout.


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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    ok, I have a few good questions for you.


    1. how do you stay so energetic and fun all the time? honestly I can only be fun and energetic when I feel like it. sometimes girls will text me when I'm in a blah kinda mood, and i'll have trouble thinking of anything fun/ interesting to say..... :/

    2. what are some good ways to get out of dry spells? currently I am in one...

    3. do you watch a lot of comedy? I often look to comedians for inspiration so I can be more spontainious.

    4. do you have any good advice for being more spontainious?

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    All of these can be answered with one word. Confidence. If you are then all actions follow naturally. When they are natural you are not using energy. Do you get tired of taking dumps? Do you get tired of eating? Do you get tired of sleeping. Natural behaviors are never exhausting.

    I used to be the same way. Cbt gave me confidence. Now I need to learn to use it.

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Be "YOU" all of the time.
    If you feel like crap, then feel like crap & let it be known.
    (Just be sure to kick ass otherwise)... Or else you'll look like a douchebag.)

    Dry spells...
    Change your outcome/expectation.

    Comedians / comedy movies are PURE GOLD.
    Learn comedic comebacks.


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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Few questions T- Mal...

    Hows the text app going?
    Are you still experimenting in text game?
    What are some plain and simple IOIs from texting besides responding too quickly and texting in bigger blocks than the other person?
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    We all know you're supposed to be fun and flirty with a girl, but at what point (if ever) should you take a more serious tone? There have been times when almost all my interactions with a girl are light-hearted, which is great, but I sometimes wonder if they perceive me as one-dimensional - that I'm funny, but not "cool", sophisticated, or anything else.

    This same concept applies to texting - should you *ever* talk about serious things over text, or should it be exclusively light-hearted?

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    I'm no expert but I believe face to face interacting is far more important.

    If you have already established this kind of interaction then it depends on 2 things. If you are very confident and the vibes you get in person are extremely positive then you can do whatever on texts. The best way to know this? Are you nervous talking to her in person and do you prefer to text her instead because of this nervousness. If the answer is yes to this question then the ability to have a relationship with her is going to be difficult regardless of how you text.

    If you have a strong physical or in person relationship then texting can be anything.

    One thing I've noticed is that because of my confidence I have to put more effort when I text girls. Even beautiful women. By effort I mean I have to show them genuine interest and have long funny conversations. Before they feel comfortable meeting.

    Don't confuse this with time. This doesnt mean it took weeks. In fact in these situations I met them within days. What it means is that i realized sending aloof messages wasn't going to cut it. I had to show them I viewed them more than sex and saw them as sweethearts.

    Thus, the idea of coming across needy disappears entirely and its now about how dominating you can be.

    Physical interaction and eye contact are powerful aphrodesiacs. Focus on those and everything else is putty in your hands.

    I've made grossly sexual comments to women I barely know but because I dont care they are so nice to me back. I told a girl by text ' I was checking her out earlier in the day in her sexy pants that showed her curvy ass and her smooth legs.' A girl I just met. Is that borderline creepy? Sure but if you're confident and in person turned her on, it doesnt matter. She asked me to stay at her place the next day- in her parents home and we made out in her bed room.

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    Quote Originally Posted by Carter21 View Post
    We all know you're supposed to be fun and flirty with a girl, but at what point (if ever) should you take a more serious tone? There have been times when almost all my interactions with a girl are light-hearted, which is great, but I sometimes wonder if they perceive me as one-dimensional - that I'm funny, but not "cool", sophisticated, or anything else.

    This same concept applies to texting - should you *ever* talk about serious things over text, or should it be exclusively light-hearted?
    Im no expert. Im a n00b. But- id say keep serious shit till after you have sex.

    Before then- lighthearted and sexual. But in person should be smoldering sex bomb behavior. IE EYE CONTACT EYE CONTACT EYE CONTACT

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    How did you ever deal with AA?

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    Default Re: What do you want to know?? T-Mal might be able to help.

    T-Mal I got skills but there is one thing I am a huge failure at...online stuff. FB, POF, Tinder, etc I cannot get a number online and rarely a friend. Tried everything any advice thanks.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack


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