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    Default what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    How do I quickly go from attraction to number close at a fast food joint or any other place w limited time

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    This may not quite the answer you're looking for, but feel it's still beneficial. I think the odds are against any man trying to get a number that way. Not impossible. Just risky.

    Here's my advice, which works on bartenders as well, which is to note the time and day she works. That's a big plus that is always underestimated. This basically means you can guarantee seeing her at least once a week.

    Understand that you would not be the first guy trying to push on her within 30 secs to 1 min while she's working . She has built up auto responses to these things.

    Understand that she is still working. Her mind is distracted. Why waste all that good convo game when she's either not paying attention or misses half of your story cause she has to tend to someone.

    Basically what I'm saying is to use this info to build rapport with her. Become a regular and spit a little clever line each time you go and building upon it each time. She gets more comfortable and intrigued by you eventually you appear as not just another customer hitting on her. This is what's called the low risk/low reward route, which I prefer in most cases, cause you're guaranteed results.

    For high risk/high reward it's mostly about body language, hygiene, voice tonality etc. So look your best and simply tell her you find her alluring and would like to keep in touch.

    But the way I'd do it: simple write your number down along with a nickname of yours. (To help build intrigue.) Hand it to her and say one line "In case you're in the mood for taking chances." Make sure to look her in the eye and smile. Then leave.
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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    What if there is already attraction?

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    Man lots of people trying to do the quick serve hired guns. You guys should realize that you have to break these hired gun's business first mentality. The only way to do that is by gaming them in the frame of different than other guys while seeming genuine. You want her attention as a person at the work place not the hired gun so be more interesting than people she works with by making her laugh and smile. Once you've done this and can see that she's lost her composure as someone whose working there. Only then are you able to get her attention. If she curls back with a smile knowing she might get in trouble should you then game her for her number. For now focus on gaming her to make her laugh and smile.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    Our interaction was definitely on that level. The way I was holding her hand and how nervous she appeared but still kept coming back. I think next time ill ask her name where she studies etc. Find a common connection and ask her out by asking for a pen and paper. Write the numbers down. This isnt for her. Its whomever I meet who gives me that attention

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    If you talk about school & common interests, you bud rapport... Not attraction.

    Rapport without attraction = FriendZone.

    Your best bet is to tease/banter. (Aka FLIRT)
    Misinterpret something she says & get a reaction out of her.
    You want to spark an emotion... Not bore her with fluff talk.


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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    I dunno, I feel like eye contact is enough and holding her hand. What more is needed for attraction? Her reactions to my strong behavior are very positive.


    All I need now is something in common- rapport to show interest in her. Like oh he likes me more than just my tail. And then drop her the message that I'm going to be a doctor....and then....get her number....

    I guess my question is why do I need more for attraction?

    And...how do I know when it is enough?

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    Then what you may need is an SOI or Statement of Interest. It's part of the qualification process.

    The function of the SOI is to transition between the attraction and comfort. It's an essential part of qualification. Why qualify if you're not gonna state that interest she has now created within you by complying to it.

    To pull off an SOI it has to come across as spontaneous and that you have to tell her. "You know what. You really surprise me. Don't think I've met anyone like you before." Feel free to add details to why you like her. Avoid physical compliments. Only on character and mind. And now you can start building comfort after the attraction you already built.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    Asking for a number is building attraction.

    I often just go straight up to a girl, get her number and walk away without hardly saying anything. 'Hello, I'm ____ I'd like to get your number'. All you need is sheer confidence. If she gives you the number you can text and build attraction to a higher level later. Simply being brave enough to ask for a number in that difficult situation is a turn on to many women. If you rely too much on 'impressing' her with verbose or some pickup line, you blanket your confidence and are showing weakness. Less is more. We communicate huge amounts though body language, facial recognition and decision making intent.

    I did this last week. Saw a super cute girl float by me at the airport like a white summer butterly. She was alone and headed off to check in. I curved back around, went straight up to her in the line (and she was tightly surrounded by other guys and people in the cue, not an easy task - but I didn't care) held out my phone and connected. A little grin appeared on her face. I smiled and said have a safe flight and walked away. We have been texting since and will hook up when she is back from her travels next week. Being straight to the point also meant I didn't embarass her or bother her too much - which is often an important thing to consider when gaming quickly.

    You dont need to start a biography about yourself or spin out a magic carpet to build attraction. You get the number or you don't. Most of it is based on how confident you are and your fundamental physical appearance. If you need to game quickly then do exactly that. The sheer confidence in going straight up and directly asking a number is very emotionaly charged in the first place. It is super attractive in itself because you are showing complete and utter strength. Risky? Yes. Girls are more attracted to risk takers - scientificly proven. Whether you ask directly or talk for 15 minutes she will have likely already made a subconscious decision of yes or no within seconds anyhow.

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    Default Re: what to say when you need to game quickly. ie fast food place etc.

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Asking for a number is building attraction.

    I often just go straight up to a girl, get her number and walk away without hardly saying anything. 'Hello, I'm ____ I'd like to get your number'. All you need is sheer confidence. If she gives you the number you can text and build attraction to a higher level later. Simply being brave enough to ask for a number in that difficult situation is a turn on to many women. If you rely too much on 'impressing' her with verbose or some pickup line, you blanket your confidence and are showing weakness. Less is more. We communicate huge amounts though body language, facial recognition and decision making intent.

    I did this last week. Saw a super cute girl float by me at the airport like a white summer butterly. She was alone and headed off to check in. I curved back around, went straight up to her in the line (and she was tightly surrounded by other guys and people in the cue, not an easy task - but I didn't care) held out my phone and connected. A little grin appeared on her face. I smiled and said have a safe flight and walked away. We have been texting since and will hook up when she is back from her travels next week. Being straight to the point also meant I didn't embarass her or bother her too much - which is often an important thing to consider when gaming quickly.

    You dont need to start a biography about yourself or spin out a magic carpet to build attraction. You get the number or you don't. Most of it is based on how confident you are and your fundamental physical appearance. If you need to game quickly then do exactly that. The sheer confidence in going straight up and directly asking a number is very emotionaly charged in the first place. It is super attractive in itself because you are showing complete and utter strength. Risky? Yes. Girls are more attracted to risk takers - scientificly proven. Whether you ask directly or talk for 15 minutes she will have likely already made a subconscious decision of yes or no within seconds anyhow.
    SEEEEEE

    This is exactly what I wanted to hear.

    I think girls who connect directly with guys are generally doing so because they are also actively seeking but dont know how. When they make a connection attraction that means they are interested. Getting a name and number is one way to do it. They just cant go up to every guy and say hey im lonely and single heres my number but they WANT YOU to do it.


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