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Thread: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

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    Default Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    okay so tonight i went out to the club and it was paccked beyond belief.

    i was dd i was not drinking at all. this is my biggest weakness i think that alcohol kind of lubricates me which is a bad habit..when i am out a social place like this sober i will get kind of in my head thinking theres people staring at me "im not having fun , oh no im not smiling and in conversation with a female" im DHVing hardcore. But drunk i will just ALWAYS and i mean ALWAYS feel comfortable.

    so i seen one girl i know spark up a convo talk to her for a bit then the dreaded pause in the convo nothing left to say this started the whole meltdown.

    then i go inside the club and see 2 girls who i am wheeling right now legit the one ive hung out with made out and done stuff with..the other i got her number and was talking to her lets call her miranda

    so i approach miranda on the dance floor do a little hair scrunch to her and mention something funny we were talking about earlier she laughs and then i look at her friend who kind of dismisses me and then im about to say something one word comes out and i stop and turn around felt like a complete forking AFC

    as i turn around the other girl who i was hitting up hard signals me over so i come over to her hug her etc talk to her for a bit, she starts dancing and i go to get behind her and she shoves me away..so im like fine and i go to walk away and she hugs me...

    i could tell i wasnt in the right mind set giving off a bad vibe ! fuck ...i left the club went to my car and had to take a breather while my buddies were in the club!

    My question is do you ever get to the point where your just like fuck this ...fuck these stupid woman and games and stuff was just a terrible night...

    ended up going back in the club opening a hb 5 for confidence running the cube and her loving it shes texting me right now ...which brought me back a bit but she was not hot kind of chubby ....

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    Default Re: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    Oh trust me I've had that happen plenty of times lol. It's not fun at all. But I realized that not drinking is more of the challenge. It's ok to drink, just not get drunk. I'm still very much in control when I have a decent buzz and it relaxes me. People can view it as a crutch all they want thinking they're above drinking. Well I don't care if I'm madly in love with my fiance and I'm getting married the next day and no woman can take me away from her. Drinking still makes the party more fun. Drinking is not solely to pick up women.

    So if you like to drink then do it. If you're dd then you know to stop when your buzzed and give yourself at least an hour to sober up before you leave.

    Drinking has been viewed as a way to make yourself comfortable around women. But it is not the main function of drinking. For me, the main function of drinking is to help get my mind off things. Stress at work. Relationship or family issues. Financial distress. Being comfortable around beautiful women is just one more thing it does. But again, a nice buzz is fine. Drunk is not.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    Also I recommend not going out with the intent to pickup women. You'll be too busy trying to pick a target that you won't be socializing and getting yourself in a talkative mood. So by the time you pick a target, work up the courage to approach, you've already spent an hour in isolation and not talking or only talking to your buddies. Talk to EVERYONE. Even the 80 year old dude by the bar. You won't look like a lion on the prowl and she will magically walk in your line of sight eventually. By that time you're in social mode and ready to talk.
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    Default Re: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    I think i'm only going to respond to the interaction with women. It seems you're interacting with the ladies just fine. It looked like you don't believe in yourself. You aren't doing things to enjoy them. You're doing things because they are goals. Learn to enjoy and do things in the moment. The more optomisim and positivey thrown out there the more you can attrack and the eaiser the situations escalate in your favor
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    I too drink a lot when I go out. Im way more confident and enjoy myself more.

    but if I don't drink, I try to put myself in the best mental state I can be in.

    meditate before the club to bring back your most confident moment you ever felt.
    FEEL LIKE THE SHIT WHEN YOU WALK UP TO THE CLUB.

    Don't worry about what girls will think of you. Your the prize not them.

    Just have fun, talk up anyone and everyone, get your friends involved too... be thee guys of the club.

    as for the moments when you cant think of things to say (which happens to us all), maybe this is a good opportunity to just run a routine.
    it doesn't have to be a deep one but just little pebbles here and there to keep the conversation flowing.

    don't give up brother. if everyone would give up after a bad game we would have no PUAs, athletes, musicians, etc.

    keep on gaming

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    Default Re: Meltdown tonight ! wanna just forking quit

    Games could work in the awkward dead silent moments but i think its safe to say you can also isolate or reconvene after going to the bathroom or getting a drink. Women do this all the time. Why not be the one to step out? Women are also self concious. If they were attracted to you they'd wonder why you got up--even for a second if theythink that it means they have doubts about themselves and have more insecurities than they are letting on. So when you come back ask "So, did you miss me?" In some ways this can be used as a compliance test to see if she wants to still talk to you based on her response.

    Regardless-- you still need to be the most interesting person there by being the most positively framed fun guy in the room. Have fun for yourself.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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