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    Hey Guys,

    Different girl compared to my last post on the forum, she has a bf I found out the day after I made out with her she is with him 5 months from another guy that knows him...

    Anyway as im away till the end of the month last week I was messing texting her and it resulted in her going cold as she claimed once she left she wouldn't becoming back. (I assume this was a shit test

    Today I got a text from her continuing the conversation from where it left off but I haven't replied as I am questioning whether I should continue with this girl as I was told "If she's willing to cheat with you she'll cheat on you" and that it's better to not have them girls around anyway as they could turn at any moment...

    Has anyone ever gone through this? How did it turn out for you if you did?
    "A man who stands for nothing, will fall for anything" - Malcom X

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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    I know what you mean. You can't take the girl seriously because of that idea she would do it to you. But I've noticed that since they have a bf they're behavior is erratic. They can be all over you one day and act like they don't know you the next. This behaviour leaves any man vulnerable to try and figure her out. And figuring her out is mental investment that could back fire.

    This is why you hear stories of guys falling for these women cause the up and down of it is intoxicating. To have her and feel like a king, then feel like you're stalking her cause she's so cold. I myself have felt these feelings, but managed to catch myself before getting too deep. I've also seen friends of mine get caught up and I understand why. It really is a crazy passionate feeling that arises.

    I say you should keep going. Just be aware that as long as she has a bf her feelings will switch between you and him on a daily basis, but you won't know. You'll just notice her erratic behavior. Just go into it looking for fun and that's all.
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    Honesty sometimes the girls won't actually cheat on you just because she left her bf for you. On the other hand if a Guy that has better game or she's just attracted to him the same thing may happen. Usually girls like that are usually good for friends with benefits not relationships.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Id say proceed but always draw your line as to where you stand to your principles for the kind of guy you want to be. In the end that is the most important thing. What kind of man do you want to be? Play the scenario but don't be played by it.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    You should expand your opportunities with as many women as possible with no expectations at all and no emotional attachments until she is the right person.

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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by jayk238 View Post
    You should expand your opportunities with as many women as possible with no expectations at all and no emotional attachments until she is the right person.
    That's excatly what you should do.

    Cheer up and move on.

    Lots of hot girls waiting for you out there

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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    She will. Doesn't mean you can't sleep with her. Also, some girls wouldn't call making out as cheating, so the make out doesn't necessarily mean she's a cheater.
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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    Yeah I was thinking that I should continue but be friends with benefits as relationship with her will never be a option...

    Thanks everyone for commenting all opinions were appreciated
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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    Yes

    Keep going no can can really speculate what will happen exactly

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    Default Re: Continue with this girl?

    regardless, is your aim here to steal this guys girlfriend..thats a headache man ..talk to some other girls the onesitis will pass go on some dates. i know you want her but there are way more girls out there who will be interested in you.this one was


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