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Thread: Girl with bf, spend time, light kino, refuses hugs or hand holding

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    Default Girl with bf, spend time, light kino, refuses hugs or hand holding

    Hi,

    There is this girl with a bf who keeps calling me. I send her a message, "You are looking for friends, I am looking for something more."
    WEnt to a concert, send here a message, "Great concert (Location). " No inivitation to join or anything.
    She calls me the next day, says she would have loved to come, but her phone had no credit. Likely explanation here in Germany. Ok, I invite her to the beach.
    We drink wine, talk about family, she says she wants to break up with bf, light kino, verbally refuses me holding her hand or putting my arm around her while we were lying close to each other.
    Long pauses, but otherwise interesting conversation. Shows me her Mama, her family, etc, etc. She critics bf, I defend BF destroyer, she clearly does not like him and says she wants to break up with him.
    I don t act needy. At one point she says, "I have gained five kilos". I don t reply.
    Back home, we split, or I take the path home, and she goes to her place. Continue? Isolate? Next? Thanks!

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    Default Re: Girl with bf, spend time, light kino, refuses hugs or hand holding

    Roger, you are playing it well so far.

    Don't worry about the kino blockage. Kino is basically a compliance test to see how far you can escalate. Every woman is different. She doesn't want to hold your hand or kiss because those are her boundaries that she wouldn't feel comfortable crossing because to her that would thread into cheating.

    For a girl who is unhappy in her relationship, all she is doing right now is looking out for greener pastures. She won't break up with her bf until she is fully sold on you.

    Whether you want to continue is up to you. But if you choose to continue, you could end up playing the "long game." I would only continue if the girl is worth it and you both have much in common and are compatible. If you see her as a prospect for a relationship that is the only reason to continue. If you want to just get a lay with her, then not worth compromising your moral compass and invest more time.

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    Default Re: Girl with bf, spend time, light kino, refuses hugs or hand holding

    Hmm... She doesnt seem emotionally driven for highs and lows. You definetly need to lead but in this situation instead of emotionally charging her to sway to you. I'd continue with boyfriend slayer and interact a little more and then at its peak freeze out and go cold. This way you're using kyle's friend zone slayer more accurately. The freeze out will have her giving you attention. Use that as momentum to tel her and let her decide what she wants if she wants you or not. I suggest reading the thread again before continuing.

    One thing im not sure of is if you want her for some action or as a gf.. Strongly consider your actions--let her decide when you've presented her with options.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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