Hi guys, will try to keep as brief as i can, all advice is appreciated
(Im 18 now) Ok flash back just over a year ago i was in a short (about 3-4 months) but committed relationship (we were eachothers first just so you're aware)
I was a total AFC then. I was clingy, too texty-texty, too intimate etc (basically i was the b**** of the relationship) after a while she gave me the cold shoulder. In response after about 3 weeks of it i broke it off with her (i could tell she was about to break up with me at any moment.. I did it to savour the little dignity i had left).
1 week later i begged for her back.
I was inexperienced and i lacked self respect. Sitting here now writing the above text truley sickens me to the stomach knowing i was like that.
So 1 year later, the past year consisted of me:
-vowing to change, i never wanted to get trampled like that again. (I quickly got over her after the begging)
-getting a great job
-buying a new car
-doing more, socialising, meeting girls, dating girls
-reading 'The Game' by......you know the man
-adopting alpha male characteristics and applying knowledge i learned in the game
In that time ive been to parties, friendly gatherings and meet ups where my ex is present (shes part of my close-knitt circle of friends)...she would always ignore me in the early stages (during that time I've felt no feelings towards her as i was too busy being the ******* man)
So here i am typing this now...
In the past month or so i dont know why but im a little interested in her again, and i think she might fancy me a bit too, ive changed alot since last year. My main IOI's are light touching, leaning her head against my shoulder, asking me to take a 'selfie' with her (ewwww) etc...note i only recieve these IOI's when shes drunk at parties.
Usually i wouldnt care but im intreeged...i dont have a case of one-itus and this isnt a 'help me get my girlfriend back' thing....just latley i almost feel i want a second chance just to in a way 'conquer' her once and for all. I dont necacerilly want to get back with her, perhaps just a 'send off' if you get what i mean.
We've been texting a little latley which is very rare aswell, i make sure to stick to my guns and keep the texts short this time.
What im asking is what can i do to seize this attraction? What can i do to increase her attraction towards me?...from what you've read to you think she's perhaps even a little attracted to me?....whats the way forward