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    Default if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    Can you semi date a girl who really likes you but you dont as much? I finally said hi to the restaurant girl- it was clear she really liked me, got her name number, we met for coffee, kissed, it was all amazing. I mean she could turn cold next time but I was all over her and she wanted more.

    She clearly wants me bad, but I'm not into her as much, she's also a sweet girl that only dates etc etc and while I'm fine with that I'm afraid of this becoming anything more especially in her mind.

    is it ok to still sleep with her and date her?

    Do girls turn crazy when you break up with them?

    I have strong feelings for her and in any other situation would see this as long term but just cant because of cultural differences.

    Also, whats the proper way of saying no to an activity she wants to do but you dont? ?do I just say no or do I say maybe or yes and then not do it?

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    Default Re: if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    Sleep with her. Who cares.

    Just don't set expectations for a relationship. If you are clear with your intentions then you have nothing to feel bad about.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    What about letting yhem know im going to be a doctor. Isnt that misleading....like giving them false expectations.

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    Default Re: if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    What?

    No. It's pretty normal when people meet for them to say what they do for a living.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    Good advice I am dealing with the same thing and my new girl is giving me the world but just not feeling it. Maybe a good thing I don't know but she is acting super lonely all the time. I would say the same thing. Since I am trying to get two 10's back that I had falling outs with I am exploring new possibilities in spite of the heartbreak. Basically to raise my value being with the new girls until I can feel something for someone again but it's harder now to get those feelings. So I am afraid I am naturally becoming non-needy.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: if a girl really really likes you but you dont - ok to sleep with?

    Quote Originally Posted by theduke View Post
    what?

    No. It's pretty normal when people meet for them to say what they do for a living.
    best advice i've read all day!!!!!
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.


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