Re: Am i being toyed with by this girl?
I think i'm the only one here who assumes that she was willing to go ot because it was a friend scenario--previously hinting towards that was the fact that you had other 'buddies' there at some gathering... When you flipped the switch to involve the word 'date' you scared her off and now she's unsure of your intentions.
For you to freeze her out does you no good--freeze outs are only useful when she's attracted to you. She wont notice your freeze outs like how they're meant to be used; in which they're used to correct the behavior of people so they give you brief attention so you can kind of restart gaming them in a smaller timeline with previous history.
For you negging her has possibilties but you have to becareful. If your negs arent playful and enticing then you're likely to push her away. It will make you sound like you're frustrated.
In my opinion i'd treat the past as no big deal but tease until she gives in, into hanging out. You also need to read her properly because she might be afraid of the idea of dating. So ease it and calibrate your approach based on her interest. If shes all in then give it the dating label. If shes still filtering herself around you then go for 'hanging out'
Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.