Here is my situation...basicall y met a girl in my neighborhood and hit it off...like incredibly. We started hanging out vibed REALLY well, she started saying how she liked me in so many ways physically/emotionally. Long story short, we end up making out one night so I'm thinking it's in the bag but this is where things actually start going downhill...
After that night I dont hear from her for about a week. Finally, she calls me over to meet in the park one afternoon and explains that she really really likes me but admits that she had been seeing someone, she doesn't consider it exclusive, so maybe we can try again in the future and still wants to hang out but she doesnt want to cause any confusion...(if that doesnt sound confusing enough, considering we were already seeing eachother as well).
I know it sounds bad, friendzone w/e you wanna call it, but I know the chemistry is strong, havent had a connection with someone like this in a long time (her words, I feel likewise but kept it cool as of late...until this happened).
Now onto logistics...she's always been non responsive to calls/txt (even when things were going great) as in one of those few people that despises cell phones and never pulls out her cell when busy (working/single mother) or doing something with someone (I can vouch). That makes communicating alot harder. I use to be able to keep my cool but after what happened Im a little flustered...saw her walking the other day-on her phone so decided to test and call but she didnt pick up. Did the most AFC thing ever and txtd that I saw her on her phone and called her out on ignoring me. She replied that she was sorry she was on the phone with her mom but I basically look really needy now. Tried to recover by saying my bad and asked her to hang out later which went unanswered.
Sorry for the novel, but how can I come back from this? Any other girl I wouldn't hesitate to phone/txt but I already know she treats her phone like a beeper which she may or may not get back to. I have the advantage of bumping into her in the neighborhood but after this last incident I feel like I might come off creepy. And lastly, if I do thankfully recover I'm not sure which frame to play? Act like I don't care? Should I start going harder and plow through her non exclusive relationship? (Since I did get close but didnt seal the deal the first time, my bad) or should I just keep playing it cool and bide my time?
I know I should probably disengage for a good while...but in my experience that has never helped...especially since more time away from me means more time spent with some other guy...its just frustrating we had so much chemistry and now its down to this...
Thanks for listening, any input appreciated