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Thread: Is this morally wrong?

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    Default Is this morally wrong?

    I'm new to all this. I'm 18 and I am about to start my senior year in high school. I find that when I am gaming a girl I sell this image of the perfect boyfriend which helps me get into their pants pretty quick, but I am always going after multiple girls at a given time because I know that getting girls is a numbers game. Is it wrong to sell this fantasy to girls? I might get the sex but is it worth it? Is their another way to get the same result? Please help? (PS. I probably sound like a pussy)

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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    All of these things you're asking you need to ask yourself. Truth of the matter is that we arent living your life. We all have different lives that WE CHOSE TO LIVE OUT. Sure there are society's morals that help us with a foundation but we all find different paths to take up because we felt the need to do so. Sometimes its on a whim and sometimes its not our choice. So think about it. What kind of life do you want to live? Live it out for yourself.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    I'm new to all this. I'm 18 and I am about to start my senior year in high school. I find that when I am gaming a girl I sell this image of the perfect boyfriend which helps me get into their pants pretty quick, but I am always going after multiple girls at a given time because I know that getting girls is a numbers game. Is it wrong to sell this fantasy to girls? I might get the sex but is it worth it? Is their another way to get the same result? Please help? (PS. I probably sound like a pussy)
    it sounds to me like you're doing great. why mess up a good thing?

    while it is better to be more honest with woman, dating multiple woman is a must if you want to improve at a faster rate.

    as for your question of ethics, it all depends solely on your morality. if you're comfortable with it, keep doing it. if it makes you feel guilty then just start being more honest and stop caring about what woman think of you.

    you don't have to portray yourself as the perfect boyfriend to get the girl, as a matter of fact many woman date men who the exact opposite of the "perfect boyfriend" and even prefer those types of guys who abuse them emotionally.

    be who you want to be, and do what makes you feel good.

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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    When you are selling this image as the perfect boyfriend you are playing into their game. You are trying to be something or someone that you clearly aren't because you are having doubts and are in here seeking answers.

    Sooner or later you're going to have an identity crisis and you are young. You are 18, be yourself. Develop your natural personality that makes YOU feel like you are made of gold. If you are happy with yourself, who gives a crap what people think? Right now you want to know what women think of you and that's just a different wording of your own question.

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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    As long you follow the maxim of leaving a girl better off than when you found her, than I think there shouldn't be any problems.

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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    There is nothing wrong or right in life. If you want to do it do it. If not don't. Just make sure the thing you want to do won't get you in jail or an extremly bad rep, till the point of all your friends not wanting to talk to you bad rep
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Is this morally wrong?

    You can do whatever you want. I personally don't like leaving people worse off than they are. If you are giving them a positive experience and don't have bad intentions, then there is nothing wrong with that. I've been with girls that have boyfriends or are married. Half the time they told me after we had sex and the other half I knew before we had sex. Now I'm a little more careful about sleeping with married women as I know there can be heavy repracussions (my friend has received death threats).
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