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    Hey TMAL, been reading through your guides and feel like I'm on information overload these past few days! There's so much great stuff by you, my minds about to blow!

    One thing's obvious, your wit is on a whole different level than most. I'm having amazing results using bits of your magic texts list, however, I'm struggling to emulate on my own. The reason might be from only seeing these magic texts posted by themselves, out of context from your entire conversation.

    For example, and this is from your texting do's and donts guide... with her responses edited to the type of replies I might receive:
    ME: “10:00 Break… sunshine + humidity = uncomfortable.”
    HER: “Oh really, well it's going to be hot tonight
    ME: “Wow! You would be the most amazing meteorologist… (and sexiest too!) ”
    HER: “Haha! you're so cute and funny
    What comes next? Do I qualify her like, "Oh your just trying to impress me. " And if she often responds with "your cute and funny", how do you reply differently each time?

    I want to have fun with her, flirt, tease and display alpha qualities in our texting. I'm under the impression that every single reply I make must be over the top fun while never asking her any questions. This is the main part I'm getting hung up on.

    And also, are your texts always geared towards being flirty? How soon do you escalate to being sexual without coming across as looking desperate, or pervy? I realize innuendos and misreads play an important role here.


    This full conversation you posted I found to be super helpful, because it displays the dynamics of your interaction. It clicked in my head and gives even deeper insight to your technique. There is more to what you're doing than just making jokes.
    Ok my friends, I just wanted to give a little follow up to this whole "crappy" situation. LOL!!

    So, picking up from where I left off.....

    Later that evening, I get a text around 6:00. (Guess who it was from??) Yep, Kate.
    (Here's our exchange)

    She said: "Hi Mark it's Kate. I made it the whole day without getting my shoes dirty. LOL"

    ME: "Heya! Should I really believe that? Or are you just trying to impress me? "

    Her: "Lol really! I'll send u a pic if I have to."

    ME: "No no... I believe you. But if it makes YOU feel better, then by all means do! "

    Her: "Haha! This has been the funniest day of my life"

    Me: "That could be taken in several ways, so I may or may not be frightened"

    Her: "It's totally good!! Promise!!"

    Me: "So, you LIKED the fake dog crap story?"

    Her: "OMG!! Stop making me laugh!! It wasn't the story but more you laughing and being so different."

    Me: "Fair enough. I'll accept that. So... send the picture already... seeing as you offered."

    Her: "I could do that. But maybe you should check it for yourself"

    Me: "Kate... Are you trying to ask me out/invite me to meet you this evening?"

    Her: "maybe"

    ME: "Ohh... Fine! I'll ask YOU Hey Kate, Meet me for a drink & bring "the shoes".

    Her: LOLOL! You got it. Where should we meet?

    Me: "Well, I'm gonna be at the Wildhorse around 9:04PM"

    Her: "LOL! OK but why 9:04?"

    Me: "Because 9:00 is too early for me. (long story, tell u some other time) "

    Her: "OMG! haha ok 9:04 it is!!
    You have AMAZING examples on here of fun, flirty lines to text. I would like to see the recipe behind these alpha conversations explained, so I can craft them myself. And if you have more full length conversations, that would be huge to me! I see what you're doing works and I want to learn!

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    Default Re: Question for T-MAL

    It's all about practice...
    The more you do it, the easier it becomes.

    Watch lots of comedy; movies, shows, etc. And get in the habit of interacting with EVERYONE. (Friends, family, coworkers, classmates... Etc.)


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    Default Re: Question for T-MAL

    Lol. I saw an example of sexting innuendo on the office. Craig robinson was reading his texts that he sent to a girl... "The moon is HUGE tonight!"


    I've been flirting with a girl I like for about 2 weeks. When do you build rapport and comfort?

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    Default Re: Question for T-MAL

    Once you've built attraction, you move to comfort/rapport.
    It should be obvious when the girl is attracted.
    But don't completely stop flirting & continuing the attraction building. Otherwise you risk being derailed into the friend zone.


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    Default Re: Question for T-MAL

    I always seem to go too far one way or the other. With this girl I forgot about building rapport. Hope this can be saved!

    BTW - I just got a smartphone. Do you still have that android app?

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    Default Re: Question for T-MAL

    Rapport builds friendship.
    Yes it IS important, but only when it's time to move to that.

    Most guys make the mistake of jumping straight into rapport & either skipping attraction, or trying to come back to it.

    But, if you forget to build rapport in addition to attraction, you end up with quick flashes of fun that go nowhere.

    And yeah, I'll send you a PM with the android app download link.


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