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    Default Keeping her interested without meeting

    There's a girl I'm talking to from pof. We flirt and hit it off really well. She wants to meet and infact we had a date setup for last week, but I had to cancel. I like this girl and am pretty sure she is "the one".

    Well, due to personal reasons it will be a few months before I can meet up with her. I dont want her to lose interest. How do I keep from fawking this up?

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    If she is 'the one' then you won't have to worry because she will also keep writing. Just stay in touch and be interesting to her. Try keep a little mystery about yourself - don't tell her everything about you straight away. Every couple of days aim to have little hits of really potent interactive conversation.

    You can also slowly build sexual escalation over the months. Start now using the word 'sexy' to describe something about her - like ask her to send you a photo and no matter what she sends comment on it like 'mmmm sexy legs!' or 'sexy eyes!'. Try get her to say something similar about you. You can even do virtual kino via texting. Her: 'I'm sleepy this afternoon, don't wanna work', you: 'Then imagine me kissing your lips and neck sleeping beauty '. Make sure you have built some rapport before getting too sexual.

    You want her to build some anticipation for meeting you so build attraction as you would in real life and try avoid just being pen pals or 'friends'.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Ugh obviously it is not going to work out because you are already starting off on the wrong foot. For instance every pretty girl I met in my 20's who showed interest I thought was the one.

    Now my thinking has gone from "how do I marry this girl?" To "how do I bang this chick?" Granted I haven't pulled it off yet but I have come darn close. The lays presented themselves but I held off due to not wanting to go all the way. Yes I only held myself back but I had girls begging to get banged. Still do but again I like the chase. When I find a girl I really like then I probably won't hold back but alas these times she usually won't pull. So gotta work on my SNL game skills. Develop a skill set and stop thinking like that. I guarantee you she has got other dudes in the picture. I saw a HB7's phone who I recently lost interest in and she had like 10 unread messages from all kinds of stuff. So believe me girls get hit up constantly by dudes. Just be grateful when you find a chick who wants to date.
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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Do phone calls... Skype calls... You're not limited to texting... If you really want her you can do what people did in my age and have intimate relationships with people over the internet and then some day when it all works out --meet up and go from there.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Quote Originally Posted by artandale View Post
    If you really want her you can do what people did in my age and have intimate relationships with people over the internet and then some day when it all works out --meet up and go from there.
    I remember back in the day writing to an American girl for years. I actually even went to visit her. Young college girl, blonde, blue eyes - American pie. Had a nice week couped up in a hotel with her, blizzards outside. Fantasy come true. I can't imagine doing that now!

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Haha.

    I've heard stories from people meeting their future bride or husbands to be as well as two guys who played a video game online and never met until one of them needed a kidney and the other donated his for the other guy so he could live. I've even heard from my brother that one of his best friends in college had a hot chick who played the game WOW and ended up cheating on him so she could get an in game item.

    So now that we covered all this i'm pretty sure anything is possible...
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    How do you know if she is the "one" if you haven't even met her yet? You don't want to put too much importance to any girl. Realistically, you should just focus on other girls and send her a ping text when you are able to meet up with her. She will just get bored of being your "pen pal" if all you do is talk online for a few months.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Willedward is right to some degree if all you do is keep things at a comfort level. In some ways long distance relationships can build a lot on tension to keep someone in your grasp but there comes many issues such as expectations.

    I also agree that you need to keep some options open--not because you might be hurt when she turns up not being the one if she doesn't but theres a good chance you will still need to game her. And with that said keep in mind the power of preselection.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Keeping her interested without meeting

    Quote Originally Posted by JackSarge View Post
    Ugh obviously it is not going to work out because you are already starting off on the wrong foot. For instance every pretty girl I met in my 20's who showed interest I thought was the one.

    Now my thinking has gone from "how do I marry this girl?" To "how do I bang this chick?" Granted I haven't pulled it off yet but I have come darn close. The lays presented themselves but I held off due to not wanting to go all the way. Yes I only held myself back but I had girls begging to get banged. Still do but again I like the chase. When I find a girl I really like then I probably won't hold back but alas these times she usually won't pull. So gotta work on my SNL game skills. Develop a skill set and stop thinking like that. I guarantee you she has got other dudes in the picture. I saw a HB7's phone who I recently lost interest in and she had like 10 unread messages from all kinds of stuff. So believe me girls get hit up constantly by dudes. Just be grateful when you find a chick who wants to date.
    Are you admitting you haven't been laid yet? Lol


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