What should I do? I am so darn picky OMG. She is a 9 from the Club and she still seems interested but she is not acting the way I want her to right now. Acting like I am Prince Charming, calling me out on my blue eyes, etc.
I just want a chick who just wants a hookup relationship and these girls are so obsessed with romance. It sucks. I have had a lot of haters for being a A-hole and being a Nice Guy so I am confused and no idea what women want since they act so conflicted.
I decided men are truly in touch with their emotions and you can always get the truth from them. But one day with women is like you met them and their crazy about you, then start dreaming about you, then go looking for other guys, then ignore you, then walk all over you, ugh such a vicious cycle. Do women actually like men? Other than the first day? It certainly seems like they have problems admitting it. Then you have all this pressure to not do this to not say that, man women make us like caged animals and whether we fight it or not we are always wrong.
But I guess no girl will ever be madly in love with me so I decided I will not be madly in love with someone either. But then if they are madly in love with me I might not like them. If this is a power game women certainly have the upper hand especially online where they feel like queens since they are being over pursued by a million dudes. If I do like a chick she totally defames me and flames me harder than anyone. I guess women are really not happy people to begin with. I mean if I had a million hot chicks over pursuing me I would be happy as a cucumber just saying. So it is because of this I think if I like or don't like someone it doesn't really matter since the ones I like throw me to the wind and the ones I don't like give me the world. I guess all that matters is the law of attraction.
Which is pretty shallow since I want chemistry with someone not just a mere oh you like me but I don't so let's hang out. I figure most women can't handle true emotion so we have to sit here in a corner of mystery hiding everything and then I guess that works cuz then it is not pre-mature but still chicks I like are soo dang hard to find like 1 in 50 hot chicks. I guess that is my lot of being able to only make myself happy since girls obviously are good at running away. I will stop fighting it and wait for the right person to come along...
I guess I am saying it is hard to find true love which is how it should be and I should just take what I can get within reason. So I will stop worrying about if she likes me or if Iike her since that is do childish but how does a PUA go to the next level of congruence knowing this and start hitting his own stride that draws an aura of self-sufficient attitude regardless of outcome!? Cuz obviously that's what I am getting at the discovery is there. This female is burning for my attention but I am a hot flame trying to find myself not get wrapped up in someone else? A hard question I know.
But all these things I guess just describes the battle of the sexes and summarizes the struggles of the game. The man is the pursuer and the female is the target or pursued so obviously she is not going to over do it ever because her options are so vast. I figured doing my own thing is the most effective thing. I still have yet to try out all my new openers, techniques, gambits, run the Summer gauntlet because my natural openers and natural texting game is so effective. Harnessing it but one day I will break out the canned stuff and it will be monumental! So I answered my own question but still how do I become a better pursuer?