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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    I know exactly what happened. I asked her friend out a few weeks ago. Suffice to say it didnt hit m until now. I didnt know theu were friends but same major same apartment complex same group of friends w same names. Probably went home and talked to her about me. Unless im completely off.

    You guys are taking it the wrong way. It would be perhaps true if she was the only one I asked ou since my last post here but thats not true. I went on dates w two other girls I met on tinder and I called off on both as my interest level dropped.

    You missed the purpose of my post. I wanted to know what to do in the event she doesnt respond id know what to say the next day. No need to jump to conclusions. If I needed validation from women I would have pursued so many other women who have shown me interest and I haven because of my school.

    I cant give up studying. My board exams are key so if I do any other activities like posting here or going on dates it has to be on scheduled times.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Unless you treated her friend badly it won't matter. If she likes you she likes you and she won't ditch you because you can't immediately go out on the spot. Your hanging too much on the text response or on specifically what to say and if you will see her again at work/library it's irrelevent anyway. Go up, smile and engage with her again - do not ask for an explanation, except maybe an innocent 'hey did you get my text? Maybe I don't have your number entered correctly?'.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Interesting. Ok. We will see what happens today.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    I just want to point out- i used the same exact lines on both, including hte write ur number down on paper. it was the same stuff on both...so not sure if that plays a role

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Just remember; not all girls respond the same way to the same things.
    That's why you need to learn to be able to adjust to MANY types & situations.


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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Nwver mind. She just texted. Apologized said she thought she had responded last night.

    Seems fishy. What should I do. Should I ignore her if I see her. Avoid her. Respond w text. Seems rude to just forget you were supposed to respond.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Quote Originally Posted by jayk238 View Post
    Nwver mind. She just texted. Apologized said she thought she had responded last night.

    Seems fishy. What should I do. Should I ignore her if I see her. Avoid her. Respond w text. Seems rude to just forget you were supposed to respond.
    Don't ignore her! Just don't make it a big deal like I said before. Move forward with a positive attitude. This should not phase you. If you see her say hi! and smile. It's just a girl who didn't respond to a text. Smile and be calm. Your acting in a way that is placing all YOUR anger onto her. Stop it. Be positive and fun.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    So I tried that. Saw her today, waved, went up to her high fived her. tried to talk to her but she gave me an awwardness that was a bit off. I felt like I lost a little of the control and some of my awkwardness came through. But I told her to stop by when I was leaving she said ok but chose not to....which is rude.

    I dont think I'll be pursuing her. Too many others, but I think my nervousness gave me away. Lesson learned.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    I texted her if she wants to meet tomorrow.
    She replied saying she doesnt know if she can. Obviously this girl was either insecure or something else and just liked my initial confidence. My lack of it later on probably turned her off. Things like that arent worth it in my opinion.

    I've noticed a couple of things. Girls who are genuninely interested in me dont mind my awkwardness/nervousness. I mean I present myself with a lot of confidence initially but even if I show some shyness later they seem to be ok with it. Its girls who are going through their own issues that seem to play off it. Maybe using it as an excuse to avoid guys. I have no clue. Whats important is that I tried and failed (first time since I've been on here). So far, since i joined this site, I've been on 6 dates with 7 women who gave me their number. Managed to close with one -making out but no F- not there yet. I've managed 2 tinder dates as well but didn't like it. In previous years id have been cuaght up with a girl and then been miserable if it didnt work out. so I'm doing really well in that regard.

    This is the first time it didnt work out due to my direct action (some other ones were due to a variety of stupid things or due to my lack of pursuit/interest).

    I also read from the how to date model thing women will regularly reject you and your rejection rate will go up- so I assume this is what he means.

    I know I failed to build rapport, and more attraction- and I think this is where it fell apart. My nervousnes got to me. Next time a girl takes the time to come and see me I will invite her in have her sit down and chat. Thats so key.


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