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    Default girl gave number- no response

    Im not one to jump the gun but usually if a girl doesnt respond within 30 minutes of me texting her its not going anywhere good. I guess a few have taken up to an hour but I wantd to get this out before the night is over.

    I thought my in person interaction with her went well but I'm not sure now.

    Got her number talked, bla bla

    before she left the library she came to me asked for the time (obvious bullshit) and we talked some, I teased her, teased her the whole time we interacted also.

    Anywa I just texted her.

    In the event she doesnt respond at all,

    I'm sure I'll see her tomorrow as she works there at the same time.

    Should I say hi to her if she sees me, or should I pretend like I never met her?

    What to do?

    Frankly speaking if you dont have the courtesy of talking to me when i text I have NO interest in you at all. The only way I will show interest is if she explains herself on her OWN. so its not like I want to retry this (too many other options) But I also want to know how to behave in these situations.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Unfortunately you have a bad attitude.
    Extremely needy & selfish.

    (That's how girls most likely perceive you)


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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Not entirely sure where you get this from? If you make a blanket statement like that I think its only appropriate to back it up.

    I was needy before- but Im pretty sure I'm not, now. On the other hand, if I'm doing something wrong its important to offer constructive criticism. If you only offer criticism, it doesnt help anyone.

    Its possible that the pendulum has swung to the other side and I am selfish- but I'm still figuring that one out.


    Please do explain.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    You should have her text your first when you first meet her. So you know you have the right number and you have her investing (chasing) more than you. You should also set up an activity and date before you get the number. Just game her normally next time you see her. Break rapport and qualify her.
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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Quote Originally Posted by WillEdward View Post
    You should have her text your first when you first meet her. So you know you have the right number and you have her investing (chasing) more than you. You should also set up an activity and date before you get the number. Just game her normally next time you see her. Break rapport and qualify her.
    I wrote my number and name down on a piece of paper- because so far it seems to be working well. I told her to write hers on it. Granted I did not build rapport with her that day, and all I did was get her number- basically asked her where shes from what she does etc. She definitely was interested in me- but when she came over, I failed to take that initiative and ask her to come by and sit with me and talk to her- honestly at that moment I was studying and I couldn't really break myself away from it. I felt bad but I had my priorities too.

    I definitely should have set up an activity with her- I think thats what she was trying to do. Also she kept hinting she wanted to meet that day- dropping hints like I dont have anything planned tonight, I'm not doing anything tonight, what are you doing tonight etc etc but again, I'm studying and so I said I had plans.

    I don't know if its just a matter of lack of interest or if I just played the cards wrong.

    If I see her, I'll pretend like nothing happened, and try and qualify her though I'm at a loss as how I can do that?

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    I think the biggest mistake I made was not inviting her when she stopped by my door.

    I'll use this as a good way to learn. Basically take any opportunity where a woman approaches you to sit with her and get to know her. texting her without this just shows weakness of sorts- like I couldnt carry a conversation with her otherwise. I just didnt know what to do in that situation. Hopefully I can in the future.

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Don't build rapport without attraction.


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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Quote Originally Posted by jayk238 View Post
    I think the biggest mistake I made was not inviting her when she stopped by my door.

    I'll use this as a good way to learn. Basically take any opportunity where a woman approaches you to sit with her and get to know her. texting her without this just shows weakness of sorts- like I couldnt carry a conversation with her otherwise. I just didnt know what to do in that situation. Hopefully I can in the future.
    Dude T-Mal is right, your attitude about this is WAYYY off.

    From the looks of what you wrote, you got all mad because she was out having a life and didn't text you back. The only reason you would be this upset about it is if her replying gave you validation and now that she didn't you're not leeching the energy from her anymore.

    Or maybe she was turned off by your so called "teasing". Maybe review what you said, how you said it, her reaction, etc.

    Also start looking at these people as not someone that needs to talk to you whenever you feel like it to boost up your ego, approach it from this mindset: How can I add value into their lives?

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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Now now we are getting sidetracked, what did you SEND her? That is the most crucial thing right now to finding out why she didn't respond. Also how soon was it? An hour, a day, etc. these things are very important to know and my guess is you screwed up on one of the fundamentals but I could be wrong.
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    Default Re: girl gave number- no response

    Quote Originally Posted by jayk238 View Post
    Also she kept hinting she wanted to meet that day- dropping hints like I dont have anything planned tonight, I'm not doing anything tonight, what are you doing tonight etc etc but again, I'm studying and so I said I had plans.
    That would be definately something to have pounced on. As soon as I hear that from a girl I will take her straight out. Study can wait.

    As for waiting 30mins...thats pretty quick. Different girls text in completely different ways...some are very chatty whilst others take days to respond. You don't necessarily have to wait around for every reply. Just text some more and if there's still no response leave it be. There are all sorts of other reasons that might be in the way like she lost her phone, her battery died, she is busy or occupied, doesn't like chatting or as others said wrote down a dud number or wrong number accidentally.

    Don't worry about it and observe her behaviour next time you see her. If she is pleased to see you, smile and continue gaming her working off her attitude and building attraction. I wouldn't ignore her but don't start foaming at the mouth either. Be 100% confident and 100% positive attitude.


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